Do women get desperate once they hit 30?

[MrNate 2.0]

^ and there you have it. Another 30 something who clearly has it going on. She even did it without a man. (oh goodness)

 

 

I'll never get why women get such a bad wrap on here. Just call it for what it is: Bitter people projecting their personal problems on women, or anything else, but themselves.

[veggirl]

I'm 30 and been with my bf for 2.5 years...people act SHOCKED that I'm not badgering him down the aisle & to knock me up. I don't know why people care so much, or why they think those things are vital 911 at 30 for every woman. The only girls I've known who I think could be "desperate" at 30 are the ones who quite frankly settled at 27/28 so they wouldn't be single at 30. If they were 30 and single, they'd just about die I think. I don't think they are the norm though...

[dreamingoftigers]

^ and there you have it. Another 30 something who clearly has it going on. She even did it without a man. (oh goodness)

 

 

I'll never get why women get such a bad wrap on here. Just call it for what it is: Bitter people projecting their personal problems on women, or anything else, but themselves.

 

I wonder if they look at the "best before" date on their sour cream in the fridge and wait until a day after to eat it, because then they know it must want the attention "real bad."

[Eau Claire]

I'm 30 and been with my bf for 2.5 years...people act SHOCKED that I'm not badgering him down the aisle & to knock me up. I don't know why people care so much, or why they think those things are vital 911 at 30 for every woman. The only girls I've known who I think could be "desperate" at 30 are the ones who quite frankly settled at 27/28 so they wouldn't be single at 30. If they were 30 and single, they'd just about die I think. I don't think they are the norm though...

 

Where do you live?

 

Quite the opposite where l live. Much more liberal and progressive. Can't imagine anyone being shocked at a couple not going down the aisle. In fact, the majority of adults in most western societies are now not getting married. Most of our friends are couples...some married, some not. I doubt if my boyfriend would even know who is married and who isn't. We just refer to couples by their first names,..John and Mary, etc.

[Iguanna]

Ok it's one thing to say we should be able to keep ourselves happy and a different thing to say that we don't need men. Of course we need men. We need the company, the sex, the passion, someone to care, to love us, to keep us safe and why not? we need a man to become the father of our children. I was not desperate to find a man for myself rather than a father for my future kids. I don't care to admit it. If nature had it that men would lose their d$ck when they get 40, how do you think they would act? Do you think they would be that comfortable with screwing around or would they want to get a woman pregnant so their gene continues? Think about it. I'm not ashamed to admit I wanted a guy to make me pregnant like crazy. Does this mean I don't love this guy? Hell no!

[Anela]

I was really happy when I turned 30. I was single, and didn't care - I felt like my life was only getting started. My mother loved turning 40, and she was single at the time, too.

[Eau Claire]

Ok it's one thing to say we should be able to keep ourselves happy and a different thing to say that we don't need men. Of course we need men. We need the company, the sex, the passion, someone to care, to love us, to keep us safe and why not? we need a man to become the father of our children. I was not desperate to find a man for myself rather than a father for my future kids. I don't care to admit it. If nature had it that men would lose their d$ck when they get 40, how do you think they would act? Do you think they would be that comfortable with screwing around or would they want to get a woman pregnant so their gene continues? Think about it. I'm not ashamed to admit I wanted a guy to make me pregnant like crazy. Does this mean I don't love this guy? Hell no!

 

I agree with the first part of your post, not the second. Women don't lose anything sexually except fertility. I didn't. If men were no longer fertile after 40, I doubt they would all want kids earlier in life. Few guys over 40 want babies. Even if women could easily have babies over 40, few would want them. I sure don't.

 

I'm guessing most guys, like most women would want children by 40, not after.

[veggirl]

Where do you live?

 

Quite the opposite where l live. Much more liberal and progressive. Can't imagine anyone being shocked at a couple not going down the aisle. In fact, the majority of adults in most western societies are now not getting married. Most of our friends are couples...some married, some not. I doubt if my boyfriend would even know who is married and who isn't. We just refer to couples by their first names,..John and Mary, etc.

 

Moved here to Philly last year, a couple months before my 30th bday. I was in Phoenix prior to that--same experience. not little podunk towns by any means.

[Iguanna]

If men were no longer fertile after 40, I doubt they would all want kids earlier in life. Few guys over 40 want babies. Even if women could easily have babies over 40, few would want them.

 

If men hadn't wanted babies throughout the centuries, the human kind would have disappeared. Men want to have their genes continued by nature. If they would lose their fertility after 40, they would become "desperate" to fertilizze earlier. Nature wants women to be able to take care of their kids at least until they become adults that's why women can't have kids after like 45 or so. But just cause you don't want kids in your life doesn't mean that the majority of the women in the planet don't either.

 

What we have without trying we tend to take it for granted. That's why men are so comfortable screwing around and they make fun of women who become desperate to have kids. I'd love to see what would happen if they were to lose this privilege.