tiredofitall2 Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 Yes, I was reading somewhere that with women everything is sex. Meaning that sex is not the act alone. so in other words work on building the excitement all day and by the time night rolls in she will be looking forward to being with you. so send her sexy texts, tell her how you miss her and how beautiful she is. Flirt with her and build the expectation. This is actually more important the the moment you end up in bed. For us men it is not so much, that is where we are different. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 If your W went to her hometown on her own - would you trust her at this point? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dichotomy Posted January 7, 2014 Author Share Posted January 7, 2014 If your W went to her hometown on her own - would you trust her at this point? Enough to let her go - but it would be a matter of "trust but verify" while she was there. But its moot for now. She has understood she needed to avoid this place for several years. She had to pay a debt for her betrayals and more importantly break the connections from the one group of people. It has not been easy for her. But it has not been easy for me - because when I was there those many years ago - she was terribly dishonest and disrespectful to me with OM present and other lovers present. She gets this, which is why she asked me and the kids to go with her. This trip in the is her high school reunion and she wishes to show her husband and kids off to her childhood good friends. There is no one associated with her high school that has any bearing on her lies and hurtful behavior to me or others. I think this maybe another step forward for us. To go back to the good parts/places of her home town and life... and avoid the rest. Go as a family. I think she gets this too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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