Loveless21 Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 So I just found out the reason y my husband of a decade was OBSESSED with his ex gf throughout our marriage was because he had anal sex with her and I wouldnt.. I was never into idea of anal. However i did try it for him years and years ago and if feelt like i wass being raped. I think i even started crying from the pain. He bought me beads but they really hurt as well. Is his so beyond swlfish on his part? I was adventurous in other ways,,, or is somewhat justifiable? I mean when you have ex gf its natural to compare to wife to a degree.. But why should someone do somehting soooo uncomfortbale for them bc the other spouse like it? I mean i gave him bj and hj very often. It was t like i did NOTHING.. What do you people think? Link to post Share on other sites
socaljk57 Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 If he enjoyed it but you didn't then its selfish. Period. No excuse to be unfaithful to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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