Flgurl1964 Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 I'm still in the house with him Im trying to save money and buy a place much cheaper then renting I should be out by the end if February. Hes a deceitful liar hes telling my family that it may work out between us then on the other hand hes texting his ex girlfriend from 25 years ago who is also married. Crazy lady called me yesterday after I texted her and told her to stop texting hes still married. I have a good mind to try and find her husband and tell him what those 2 have been doing. I was floored that she knew so much about me I was so hurt that he would do that but then lie to my face and make it seem like there was hope. He even told her personal things about us the whole time hes telling me hes not talking to her. Please someone help me get off this ride I'm driving myself crazy having trouble concentrating at work and life in general. I don't have a lot of friends so I really have nobody to talk to. Link to post Share on other sites
iworthmore Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 Sorry to hear that. First u must know its gonna be hard period of time and you must face it and go thru it. But be sure that its gonna end someday soon. Abt ur ex husband and his cheating married gf. She's worthless and u shudnt be concerned abt what she knows abt u. Dont pay attention to this matter. Such people dont deserve our thoughts and concern. U need to move out. Asap. Cut all ties with him and go NC or LC if u have kids together. Staying in with him will make things worse And abt telling the bitch's hubby about her affair. I wudnt suggest u do that. I believe in karma. And it will hit her soon. Dont pay them any attention. I know its big temptation to tell the husband but me personaly i think its gonna backfire 2 things for u to understand. Ur ex hubby is dead for u now. Give up hope cuz he aint worth it. Hes dating cheating woman infront of u. And 2nd those times will pass. Just let time heal it and be certain that its gonna end. Best luck for u. Wish i can help more Link to post Share on other sites
Reels Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 Whatever happened was really unexpected, and surprising. But now, you should really concentrate on your practical life, and adopt some new habit. Link to post Share on other sites
bentleychic Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 The best thing for you right now is to concentrate on your new start. Don't even bother with him and her. Put them out of your mind since you're already moving on. All that will do is bring negativity and toxicity which you do NOT need while trying to start a new life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flgurl1964 Posted January 1, 2014 Author Share Posted January 1, 2014 You guys are great thanks for the support. Yes Ive mentally killed him over and over. It hurts but I know once I get out then I can really start to heal and live. I looked at a place today so well see. Link to post Share on other sites
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