Amelia81 Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 So my married boss kissed me five weeks ago. I was attracted to him beforehand but it really wasn't an issue to me and I didn't feel it was mutual so when he kissed me it was a shock. I've been an OW before, and it broke me so i know the heartache it can cause. He's not 'pursued' anything since as such, but we've grown closer as he does not stop talking to me at work to the point I get more work done when he is not around, and two days ago after an office refurb he is now sat opposite me and he's in my direct line of sight where as before he was next to me but to my right so he could see me but I had to turn to see him. So much so the first afternoon we were sat opposite I could not stop giggling like a stupid high school kid sat on the same table as their secret crush. I know I need to get over it, so tonight I went out, snogged another guy and had another interested but all I could think of was HIM! I really thought if I'd had a few to drink and some alternative attention then it would help. Four nights after he kissed me I went on a date that was pre arranged and I made sure i still went on it despite what happened as I knew I couldn't cancel because of him but that didn't work either. What else can I do? We have an annual away day in five weeks and I'm worried - it's an overnight stay although he keeps saying to people he is not going to drink which makes me think he is concerned too. Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 Amelia81, There are more red flags here than in the USSR. Put the brakes on this now. So my married boss kissed me five weeks ago. Your boss is waaaay out of order. He is abusing his position, risking his job and maybe yours as well. I've been an OW before, and it broke me so i know the heartache it can cause. So didn't you learn anything from that? I could not stop giggling like a stupid high school kid sat on the same table as their secret crush. So you think this is all a joke? What else can I do? We have an annual away day in five weeks and I'm worried - it's an overnight stay If you can't trust yourself ( or him) don't go. You are skating on thin ice here and if you don't get a grip on this you'll drop through. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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