pickflicker Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 So if she shows up at my door, drops her dress and wants me, I say no? Yes. Have some self-respect. And some self-control. Link to post Share on other sites
Author truth_seeker Posted January 6, 2014 Author Share Posted January 6, 2014 Yes. Have some self-respect. And some self-control. Lets compromise: I will give her 10 seconds to leave. If she doesn't then I will have sex with her. Link to post Share on other sites
pickflicker Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 Lets compromise: I will give her 10 seconds to leave. If she doesn't then I will have sex with her. Bye, OP. Sounds like you and her are made for each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author truth_seeker Posted January 6, 2014 Author Share Posted January 6, 2014 Bye, OP. Sounds like you and her are made for each other. I'm just joking. Link to post Share on other sites
Juha Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 No one knows why she may be back trying to see you. How about you hang out for coffee or something and talk with her and see what's up. May be she is being genuine, this time, maybe not. you won't know if you don't at least spend a little time with her. that's if you really do like her, if not then don't bother. Although just hooking up with her is enticing. haha Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 If she doesn't care, why come around again? She thinks you are an easy mark, a pushover. And she's probably right based on this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
happydate Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 (edited) I was interested in a girl a very long time ago, and she was interested in me. She was immature and would play games. I got annoyed, got upset and called her out on it. She lied, insulted my intelligence and I stopped speaking to her. Well, new year is here and she's coming around again to see what I'm up to. See if I'm single, available, maybe have let go of what happened before, ie, pretend it never happened. I'm the type of person to drop people when they do something I deem unforgivable. When it comes to women, if I catch them in a lie, I immediately go cold and don't speak to them again. Maybe it's my personality and I'm over reacting? The reason she's coming back is because you've got "EXACTLY" the same attitude as her. A pushover and a guy who likes his ego to be stroked. And guess what a woman he's going to attract? A woman who's like you and who likes to stroke her own ego. You guys are basically made for each other. Each other is using pushing and pull techniques to win over his or her own egos. She thinks, I can hook him hard and play him down. I can even sleep with him to proof that I'm just the most fantastic woman in this whole world -- basically ego stroking her shot through the floor self-esteem. Seriously though, I've slept with women like that and there's just not worth cumming for! No passion, no loving foreplay -- more like 1 2 done dude. Then the dude is going to do the same as the guy, one two thank you maam! Btw, just be safe playing with these women, because you never know what STI you might get. I caught Chlamydia from such a chick. Painful as heck to urinate and the burning sensation and the antibiotics I had to take causing a severe upset stomach! Seriously though, if you are really want to screw bad, get something like a Fleshlight. Soak it in warm water, use nice water based lube and then screw it. It feels almost as good as the real thing and save your energy on nicer more loyal sane women who will care for you. When you have sex with these women, the explosive orgasm is more intensive and the bonding relationship. At least she cares about you in her heart and so will you. I suppose you are doing this perhaps because you are unloved, uncared for and unappreciated by anyone especially with women you meet? That's not the problem with the women you meet. The problem is with you. You are the cause of the situation you are in now; attracting trailer trash into your life and then willing to settle with the lowest of the common denominator. You chose to associate with her, while better women pass you by. Edited January 6, 2014 by happydate Link to post Share on other sites
Author truth_seeker Posted January 6, 2014 Author Share Posted January 6, 2014 She thinks you are an easy mark, a pushover. And she's probably right based on this thread. Nope. You got it wrong. A pushover is a person who is a glutton for punishment. They keep going back for more. I'm not knocking on anyone's door. They are knocking on mine. I'm just deliberating on how to handle this. A) I can let her inside, let her think I'm a pushover, and turn her game on her. B) I tell her no thanks and get lost. Link to post Share on other sites
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