jc63 Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 As of Jan. 3rd, I am moved into a tiny one-bedroom apartment by myself and my separated W in in Florida beginning her nursing contract. She has decided not to file until she returns in April, which makes me feel like my life is being put on hold and it's preventing me from moving on. I did what everyone told me to do, I let her go and I'm trying to move on. I'm finding a new job, preparing for my new school program, and I'm trying to look forward to living just for myself for awhile. In a small way, it's exciting but this is NOT how life was supposed to go… I still miss her everyday but it is getting easier. I've had friends and family really rally behind me and show support and I've even had a some women looking at me in a different light. However, I have no idea how to make a move on a woman now. I know my W is going to be out there whoring around and I kinda want to do the same, but I've known her since I was 15 and I've never been interested in anyone else. I never knew much about women, just her. I didn't date around much in high school because I had found the one I wanted at 15. She called me today to let me know that she is going to be as reasonable as possible throughout the process of D. I really appreciate that because I'm very financially clueless and although she may not love me anymore, I don't think she would actively try to **** me over. The only thing that I do plan to stick her with in the D is my truck. She took out the loan and insisted that I buy this truck. Since she left, she's continuing to pay the payment but eventually wants me to take it over. Being in school full time and working full time, I'm not going to be able to afford it and I damn sure can't afford to lose it. So since I know she can afford it, she's just going to do it. Just wanted to give you guys an update because your advice has really help over the past two months. If anyone needs additional details or any more advice to give, don't hesitate PLEASE!!! Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 About getting back into the dating scene. Just talk to them. Begin slow, most people when given a chance like to talk about themselves. So when given an opening ask them about their selves, their studies, do they like sports, what teams? What pets do they have, get the picture. Do not overly talk about yourself unless you are asked. Ask them about food. What foods do they like? Have you ever tried the fried bologna sandwiches at Eat At Joes? Or the Chinese or Mexican food at this Sloppy Sams? Perhaps some time I can take you there. Can you cook? One of the first things I did after my break up was to learn how to cook some gourmet meals. "Girls Just Want to Have Fun" is so true. Look for activities that most women haven't tried. Being female, many of them have never gone to a race, tractor pull, etc. My former fiancé, had never gone fishing. Link to post Share on other sites
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