sooshi Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Like BC1980, I thought it was really creepy that she showed up at your house the way she did. Keep going no contact. You don't deserve this. Link to post Share on other sites
bluegreen Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 In translation : Am bored, perhaps horny, lonely have nothing whatsoever else do do or anyone to do with so am gonna see how high you gonna jump when I threw you like one pathetic bread crumb. Please tell me next time you will tell her to f... off please ? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Trovador Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 You, sir, have now your first stalker! Seriously, it's the equivalent of drunk talk, or maybe the alternative to that... did she used drugs? Creepy, to say the least... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted March 31, 2014 Author Share Posted March 31, 2014 In translation : Am bored, perhaps horny, lonely have nothing whatsoever else do do or anyone to do with so am gonna see how high you gonna jump when I threw you like one pathetic bread crumb. Please tell me next time you will tell her to f... off please ? I did tell her to f off before. She said "She respects my decision and won't contact me again"....so much for that. She has most likely given up now - she blocked me on whatsapp and most likely deleted my number in the process so she can gain control of the situation and her feelings. You, sir, have now your first stalker! Seriously, it's the equivalent of drunk talk, or maybe the alternative to that... did she used drugs? Creepy, to say the least... She doesn't use drugs or even really drink. I think shes just looking for a way to talk to me - I doubt she knows I saw her walking up my steps to get to my door. Honestly, a lot of her problems aren't mine anymore. She is a super attractive girl and has a lot of guys chasing her. She really fell for me because she couldn't even tell if I like her or not and wasn't slobbering all over her. I know it is probably driving her crazy that I ignored her again and won't be her "friend", but part of my is still sad at everything that happened. It has started to re-ignite those negative feelings towards her and the entire situation. Thank god for NC though, it has made me so much stronger and more aware of everything. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
KaliLove Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 I did tell her to f off before. She said "She respects my decision and won't contact me again"....so much for that. She has most likely given up now - she blocked me on whatsapp and most likely deleted my number in the process so she can gain control of the situation and her feelings. She doesn't use drugs or even really drink. I think shes just looking for a way to talk to me - I doubt she knows I saw her walking up my steps to get to my door. Honestly, a lot of her problems aren't mine anymore. She is a super attractive girl and has a lot of guys chasing her. She really fell for me because she couldn't even tell if I like her or not and wasn't slobbering all over her. I know it is probably driving her crazy that I ignored her again and won't be her "friend", but part of my is still sad at everything that happened. It has started to re-ignite those negative feelings towards her and the entire situation. Thank god for NC though, it has made me so much stronger and more aware of everything. Can we make the bolded the official motto of the Break Up section? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
CaliBabe Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Check you out, awesome willpower and dedication Lauri. I really respect you sticking to your guns. It is a great example for us all. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted April 1, 2014 Author Share Posted April 1, 2014 Check you out, awesome willpower and dedication Lauri. I really respect you sticking to your guns. It is a great example for us all. Thank you. I'm still not where I want to be. I am a bit hard on myself b/c of this, considering everything that happened..but one cannot help how they feel. My biggest mistake was trying to rush the healing process - this is something that needs to happen over time and through baby steps. All that keeps me going is realizing my ex is most likely going MORE crazy then I ever did. It comes down to MYSELF. They key is being strong and holding my ground. Being in control of what happens is attributed to NC...funny thing is, as I was typing this, she just sent me another message saying "Hi" again via text. She must be really cracking. I have a feeling she may come to my door - but I'll deal with that if that situation ever comes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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