Caught Girlfriend cheating on Facebook (Messages)

[deathandtaxes]

This incident happened a week ago. And after a few days I just decided to be sarcastic around her about it, making jokes about oral sex and cheating and stuff. Whenever I mentioned these topics she would get real jumpy. When I decided to confront her about the whole situation SHE LIED INTO MY FACE ABOUT IT LIKE I HADN'T SEEN IT WITH MY OWN 2 EYES. This isn't the first occasion I hacked her Facebook and have seen nasty messages. Atleast at the time I confronted her should could've came clean about it, but GUYS she really lied to me in my face about it like I was a damn fool. It hurts so bad. I don't know what hurts more, the fact that she lied about it after clearly being caught, or the actual messages.

 

 

 

Why did you give her a pass the first time you saw nasty messages?

 

 

Cheaters will lie. And then they will be more pissed that you 'invaded their privacy'.

[ae86drift]

Is time to break up

[Real36]

WTF did I just read? You seem like a good enough guy, just save yourself from this nonsense. A few months from now you'll look back and think "can't believe I wasted my time on this loser" Good luck to you!

[KatZee]

I have no idea what's even going on. What language is that? I feel like I've dropped 50 IQ points trying to decipher that garbage.

 

Yeah, she's sucking other people's dicks. $h3 a hoE. ||0L

[thedmc]

The fact that you are still with her is a joke. I'd have dropped her ass the moment I read what is possibly a form of broken english created by a couple of 5 year olds. That being said, Print out a few dozen copies of those messages, Hand them to her friends and family, and leave her slutty ass.

[expensive_labels]

The fact that you are still with her is a joke. I'd have dropped her ass the moment I read what is possibly a form of broken english created by a couple of 5 year olds. That being said, Print out a few dozen copies of those messages, Hand them to her friends and family, and leave her slutty ass.

 

After I confronted her about it, she claimed that she was just talking to him and not feeding into what he was saying, basically just leading him on or flirting with him. Do you guys believe that???? SMH, imagine if I would've caught on to this later and checked her FB after the fact. I would've been able to see the messages to see if she really did it or not and really catch her red handed. Not trying to be a deviant but I wish I could've caught her red handed...

[Woggle]

After I confronted her about it, she claimed that she was just talking to him and not feeding into what he was saying, basically just leading him on or flirting with him. Do you guys believe that???? SMH, imagine if I would've caught on to this later and checked her FB after the fact. I would've been able to see the messages to see if she really did it or not and really catch her red handed. Not trying to be a deviant but I wish I could've caught her red handed...

 

You should be downright insulted she actually expects you to believe that.

[aliveagain]

Agreeing to give him a B/J until she gets to know him better is her idea of flirting, come on man, any normal girlfriend would have unfriended this predator and handed him back his nuts in a bag.

[bubbaganoosh]

What other proof do you need to see that she's lying to you and not worth keeping. Do you need to actually see her giving the other guy a BJ?

 

It's all right there and that should be enough for you to move on unless you thinking about giving her another chance. If that's the case then friend, you get what you deserve.

 

This reminds me of my cousin who followed his wife and pulled her naked ass out of the back seat of a car parked behind a K Mart and she told him, "It's not what you think". Then the other guy took off with her clothes in the car and my cousin left her there buck naked.

 

Is that what you need for proof?

[ThatMan]

Are you still with her? Do you even respect yourself?

 

Anybody would feel downright insulted to be told it was just leading a man on. She was agreeing to have sex with a random stranger from the internet. There are women on the Jerry Springer show who are less of a skank.

 

Yet you have stood there simply shaking your head?...

Please tell me you've SMH'd in amazement and not uncertainty of what to do.

 

I've shook my head in disbelief that this is even a real story. Any other man would do more than SMH - they would walk away immediately.

[JDPT]

She agreed to the BJ man, that's more than sufficient proof.

[Keke1]

After I confronted her about it, she claimed that she was just talking to him and not feeding into what he was saying, basically just leading him on or flirting with him. Do you guys believe that???? SMH, imagine if I would've caught on to this later and checked her FB after the fact. I would've been able to see the messages to see if she really did it or not and really catch her red handed. Not trying to be a deviant but I wish I could've caught her red handed...

 

Yea don't fall for that and don't be afraid to be alone. You'll find someone who treats you with respect. Let this mess slide and you'll be back in here. Let her go man she's not the only woman left in this world.

[ctxinfl]

After I confronted her about it, she claimed that she was just talking to him and not feeding into what he was saying, basically just leading him on or flirting with him. Do you guys believe that???? SMH, imagine if I would've caught on to this later and checked her FB after the fact. I would've been able to see the messages to see if she really did it or not and really catch her red handed. Not trying to be a deviant but I wish I could've caught her red handed...

 

Don't believe that for a second. I went through something similar with my soon-to-be-ex wife. I found something she was doing behind my back, conducted a bit of additional investigation the next day and told her I was divorcing her that night. You simply do not even begin to entertain conversations like that with another person if you are in a committed relationship as it removes the necessary foundation of trust.

 

At the very least she was carrying on an emotional affair. That emotional affair could have easily led to more. And then she lied to you when initially confronted. She then tried to play it off as "it was nothing." She's been lying to you the entire time. Cut your losses now. There are better people in the world than her.

[crederer]

Can someone translate this to english?

[expensive_labels]

Don't believe that for a second. I went through something similar with my soon-to-be-ex wife. I found something she was doing behind my back, conducted a bit of additional investigation the next day and told her I was divorcing her that night. You simply do not even begin to entertain conversations like that with another person if you are in a committed relationship as it removes the necessary foundation of trust.

 

At the very least she was carrying on an emotional affair. That emotional affair could have easily led to more. And then she lied to you when initially confronted. She then tried to play it off as "it was nothing." She's been lying to you the entire time. Cut your losses now. There are better people in the world than her.

 

Damn...You divorced her within one day? Thats tough, but the way I look at it is it's hard to throw away someone you've been in a relationship with for quite a while. It's just a tough pill to swallow.

[ctxinfl]

Damn...You divorced her within one day? Thats tough, but the way I look at it is it's hard to throw away someone you've been in a relationship with for quite a while. It's just a tough pill to swallow.

 

To be fair, the marriage was in bad shape prior to her affair. It was basically the last straw. Had her only transgression been the affair I may have tried to work through it.