My Ex And What She's Been Doing

[Unfortunate]

Alright, so its been about 2 months since my ex and I started NC. A friend of mine recently went to where she worked and started a conversation with her. My friend (who is also a girl) asked her how everything was blah blah blah. My ex eventually came to the subject of me and said this "He seriously has emotional issues" and more around the line of how I was before the break up happened. THEN my ex started jokingly saying how my friend is starting to look promiscuous around a lot of guys, but that didn't really bother her.

 

Now here's the thing. I recently wanted to know what she's been doing. There is another friend of mine that my ex thinks is completely gross because he has been with a lot of ugly girls and is very easy. I've recently learned that my ex sent a topless picture of herself to this very same guy. Why? I don't know.

 

Now here's my main question. Why is it that my ex has completely gone slutty in a matter of 2 months? Does she even still think about me? It hurts knowing that it took a YEAR for me to even get any oral sex and now shes sending pictures out like this?

 

Thank you again.

[drifter777]

Just because it took a long time for you to get head from her doesn't mean she's still that same girl. You turned her out and she liked it and is now enjoying being a single girl. She's doing what she wants to do and it's not up to you to judge her.

 

Don't sit and pine away about how wonderful it was to be with her because, if you honestly think about it, it wasn't that great. It never is. So stop sending people to check up on her and just move on yourself.

[nescafe1982]

If you were truly NC, you would not have known about this conversation your ex had with someone else. Don't check up on the her like this... it will only make you feel worse. When friends bring her up, politely tell them you aren't interested, and change the subject.

 

Seriously. That's the point of NC.

[crimsonite]

Alright, so its been about 2 months since my ex and I started NC. A friend of mine recently went to where she worked and started a conversation with her. My friend (who is also a girl) asked her how everything was blah blah blah. My ex eventually came to the subject of me and said this "He seriously has emotional issues" and more around the line of how I was before the break up happened. THEN my ex started jokingly saying how my friend is starting to look promiscuous around a lot of guys, but that didn't really bother her.

 

Now here's the thing. I recently wanted to know what she's been doing. There is another friend of mine that my ex thinks is completely gross because he has been with a lot of ugly girls and is very easy. I've recently learned that my ex sent a topless picture of herself to this very same guy. Why? I don't know.

 

Now here's my main question. Why is it that my ex has completely gone slutty in a matter of 2 months? Does she even still think about me? It hurts knowing that it took a YEAR for me to even get any oral sex and now shes sending pictures out like this?

 

Thank you again.

 

Sounds to me, she wants attention. She's not looking for a relationship, she's looking for guys to flirt with her and get all the attention that every girl wants.

 

If you're trying to get over her, you need to block her off completely. If you're trying to get her to miss you and come back, you still need to block her off completely. Make it known to her that you're happy without her and you don't care what she does. If she decides to date someone else, let her. You can't tell me some guy can do a better job you can, right?

 

Back to your question, she wants attention, maybe one night stands but absolutely nothing serious from what I can tell. IMO if she truly cared about the time with you, how come she badmouths you? Was it a bad breakup?

 

When you have a chance!

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