JessieJ08 Posted January 12, 2014 Share Posted January 12, 2014 So Im wondering should it be considered a "RED FLAG" ladies if your dating someone for awhile and you realize they seem to have a lot of married females around?? (Not being paranoid or insecure) How many is too many? my friend is dating a guy like this he has been friends with at least 5 questionable married women and he is young We just cant figure out why? All in which he has just meet during their relationship?? Since they all seem to be a lot older I personally think He is doing something to attract himself to a married woman not only that she told me he has slept with married, unavailable females before them?? Link to post Share on other sites
fwd Posted January 12, 2014 Share Posted January 12, 2014 Does seem very odd but impossible to give useful opinions without knowing the context of how he met these women? Also there's no number that is too many if they're all innocent relationships. Maybe he takes comfort in older women - does he have any mother issues? Of course it could be as you suspect as well, and I guess it is a big of a red flag, even if there's nothing sexual going on with these women Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 12, 2014 Share Posted January 12, 2014 Based on what you wrote the only red flag I see is your paranoia. If his behavior is above board, there's no problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JessieJ08 Posted January 12, 2014 Author Share Posted January 12, 2014 They are all women he works with and most are military. Thats a good question about Mommy issues he just may I wouldn't know. Like the last one I know the details the woman had texted him asking for his email she then asked his status... He told her single, but lives with his Girlfriend. My friend saw that as a Red Flag because he had told her he meet this woman with her husband. She just didn't understand why she would ask him something that if she was his real boss she would already know. I guess he then started making excuses saying the woman might need to know it for professional reasons but I guess she saw the lady texted saying that she was just being nosey and that she likes to ask questions. After she asked that she didn't ask anymore, My friend felt really upset with the fact that him being in a new unit the only number he got was some married woman No one elses. Then he just tried to play like her asking questions like his status made perfect since, He then deleted the girls number out of his phone, and disconnected basically deleted his whole ipod so it had no information. He told my friend he didn't want her freaking out or to contact her that it would embarrass him. So strange but IDK Link to post Share on other sites
Author JessieJ08 Posted January 12, 2014 Author Share Posted January 12, 2014 I understand what your saying but No I dont think its a case of being paranoid. One them was trying to hook him up with her single female friend and he entertained it. This is the same Married woman who when he deployed contacted him saying she needed go to the hospital she was feeling sick. She also would talk to him about setting up people to cheat So I believe my friend when she says these women are not innocent friends. Link to post Share on other sites
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