hurt and upset

[discodiva1980]

Hi there

 

Its been a while since Ive been online here. last time I was here someone made me see sense that explained that I had to move on because my ex wasnt coming back this really hurt but maybe they were right.

 

I am alot stronger than I use to be and have been moving on with me life alone with my ex I still think about him and wonder what hes up to espiecally this time of year. And dispite that Im feeling alot better if I was told that I had one wish It would be to be back with my ex becuase I do still love him and miss him terribly.

 

I use to contact him often and send him emails but I have keft him alone I havent contacted him in two months. than just last week out of the blue he sent me an email which said hi how are you? I couldnt believe it because last time we spoke he told me he never wanted to hear from me again and he didnt want me for a girlfriend or a friend. and here he was contacting me it was strange kept the conversation short. he told me that whenever Im online to feel free to send him a email he would like to know how Im getting on.

 

I cant understand the sudden chenge of heart I dont know what to do do I have a chance with him

 

xx

[DinNJ]

Once again, the NC rule comes through.... Do you have a chance of getting back with him? Yes and No.... yes, depending on how you handle it from here.... No, because, chances are he just got dumped or is feeling lonely, or maybe he's fighting with his new girl... You'll never actually know unless you feel him out a bit.... I wouldn't respond.... at least not right away.... seem if he follows through with another.... keep your responses short and sweet... just be careful.

[seductress989]

Hi,

Our situations are very similiar. My ex and I broke up a while back, and I finally did NC after him hurting me to a point where I couldn't take it anymore. I stopped all contact w/him for almost 2 months and guess what, I get an email. Funny, b/c he clearly stated that he had NO feelings for me. That just proves that NC comes through once again.

 

I don't know why they do this to us. I presume it's b/c they want to see if they still have power over us. If I were you, I would not respond unless I got another email. I haven't responded to mine and I probably will never see him again or contact him. Unlike me, if you still have feelings for him, you could consider contact after another email of course or another form of contact. Whatever you do, DO NOT chase him. Let him wonder for once. Sounds like he deserves it.