Mrlonelyone Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 Why was it that one week they were making plans for a trip we could only take in the next winter, then the next they did not want to speak to me at all? That is the one that really nags me. My only answer is that it was because I was about to graduate. That they grew cold as the arctic as I finished my research up...then warmed when it looked like I'd be there working on it some more again. Then months latter invited me as part of a research thing to come back to that school and meet with them. (Which I could not and did not. I seeing me was part of their agenda why hide behind an official reason? Be brave about it ... to hell with those who might call you a N***er lover.) The worst part of it all for me is I got to know someone so well in 960 hours of us hanging out, equal to about 80 traditional dates. I got to know their family and they got to know mine through me. We seemed to click pretty well ... when I answered relationship quizzes to see if I was just idealizing things they said we were doing better than most... Then nothing. Total U turn.. then another U-turn...then another Uturn. I'm sure someday I will feel better. But, I've done so much worse than that last one ... It is hard to imagine doing too much better. Link to post Share on other sites
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