Men Only Please...Can a man REALLY love his w if he cheats all the time...11 yrs.

[immoralist]

I guess those are sometimes the pro and cons of marriage.

 

Are there ever, my dear. Are there ever.

 

I'm happy to hear you're moving on. You deserve so much more than a MM's bread crumbs love.

[Shiraz]

Originally posted by jvjrose

 

 

Just keep talking jv. Your not alone. There are others here, that can relate to what you are saying totally. Plus your emotions are up and down (which is also normal.

 

I think Mr. was miss udnerstood. Lets just continue without pointing fingers. It hink taht was just misunderstandings.

 

Sorry for interferring. Again JV your not alone. I am a OW and I ask the same questions you ask. And I ask over and over, just to hear different responses. No, I newver really like the responses.... I want to hear what I want to hear.... But it's not happening.

 

Hang in there!

[Shiraz]

Originally posted by KissMyTiara

 

 

Just calm down. Trust me, she's not dumping on you or attacking you...and in fact, if someone comes on here and truly does dump on and/or attack you, she's going to be of the first people to protect you.

 

I think you would have a lot of people coming to your defence. We all like to be heard and this is a great place to come and be heard and chat with people that actually do understand what you are going through.

 

JV what you need is a super dupper hug, and If I were there with you, you'd get it!

 

Hey Kiss, I like your way of saying people have are having ****ty days! Made me smile.

 

Too bad, we couldn't all meet and have some wine, and talk about al lthis stuff in person!

[cnt2infinity]

It may be in mens blood to do this. We can remain faithful but there isn't a married man out there that HASN'T thought about it. Marriage was created by man not God (which ever way you believe). Do you seriously think Neanderthal men stayed around? I was still in a relationship with a Spanish girl when I met my wife. But in the end I had to break one of them off. In the end I chose who I wanted to be with but it took time to clean up the mess. She did the same with a bf she broke up with. Its certain matters that you have to take into consideration.

[Other Man]

I don't know the wedding vows, but if he cheats on you, not only does he not love you, but he doesn't respect you. Leave