What do I do about him?! Ldr

[Jojo1]

So most relationships the guy loves to txt his girl. Sends her random love texts or letters says she's beautiful. My bf does none of that and we r 7,235 miles apart! Yep he hardly txts and I get frustrated cuz it's not like he's busy he's watching cartoons (bey blade, Pokemon etc ) or playing video games. Btw he's 17 and I'm 16. I wish he was one to send little love notes and want to talk to me 24/7 but he isn't. We barely talked for 5 days then we talked and yesterday we talked a bit and today he said can we take a break today. It makes me feel like he doesn't wanna talk to me. What do I do? When we txt I love him but he's not really talking at all. And I get sad and cry a lot. He said he loves me. We have been together about 4 months. I'm starting to feel like he doesn't really care or want to txt. And it just makes me wanna cry cuz I love him.

[nomadic_butterfly]

So most relationships the guy loves to txt his girl. Sends her random love texts or letters says she's beautiful. My bf does none of that and we r 7,235 miles apart! Yep he hardly txts and I get frustrated cuz it's not like he's busy he's watching cartoons (bey blade, Pokemon etc ) or playing video games. Btw he's 17 and I'm 16. I wish he was one to send little love notes and want to talk to me 24/7 but he isn't. We barely talked for 5 days then we talked and yesterday we talked a bit and today he said can we take a break today. It makes me feel like he doesn't wanna talk to me. What do I do? When we txt I love him but he's not really talking at all. And I get sad and cry a lot. He said he loves me. We have been together about 4 months. I'm starting to feel like he doesn't really care or want to txt. And it just makes me wanna cry cuz I love him.

 

Have you met in real life? Aren't you a little young to take on a LDR? Finish highschool, start college, settle into a new job before taking on something this challenging.

[ExpatInItaly]

So most relationships the guy loves to txt his girl. Sends her random love texts or letters says she's beautiful. My bf does none of that and we r 7,235 miles apart! Yep he hardly txts and I get frustrated cuz it's not like he's busy he's watching cartoons (bey blade, Pokemon etc ) or playing video games. Btw he's 17 and I'm 16. I wish he was one to send little love notes and want to talk to me 24/7 but he isn't. We barely talked for 5 days then we talked and yesterday we talked a bit and today he said can we take a break today. It makes me feel like he doesn't wanna talk to me. What do I do? When we txt I love him but he's not really talking at all. And I get sad and cry a lot. He said he loves me. We have been together about 4 months. I'm starting to feel like he doesn't really care or want to txt. And it just makes me wanna cry cuz I love him.

 

I'm sorry sweetheart, but I think it's pretty clear that he's lost interest. He just wanted to break up for the day? The brutal truth is that you're probably right - he's doesn't really care or want to text. You're so very young; do not put all your hopes for a love on a guy who is so far away. Have fun with your friends. Meet boys who live near you and can actually meet with you, and enjoy your time with them. This guy will soon be a memory for you.

 

Have you ever actually met him?

[oldshirt]

 

We have been together about 4 months.

 

 

No you haven't.

 

Real relationships are between real people in real life.

 

You are crying and getting upset and wasting time an emotional energy with alphabetical characters being displayed on an electronic screen.

 

Put the phone down, turn the computer off and go out and do something in the actual, physical world with real flesh and blood human beings.

 

Bat your eyes and giggle at some stupid jokes from a real 17 year old boy face to face.

[Murtz]

The only other thing you can do is to tell him what is bugging you. If he wont change and you cannot accept that, then you guys are not meant to be with each other.