maverick29 Posted January 15, 2014 Share Posted January 15, 2014 I'm in this interterm class at college (1 month long January class) and this really pretty girl kept exchanging glances with me today in class, and occasionally our eyes linked. I mean, she was sitting in front of me to the side and kept turning right in my way and looking either at or near me, so she definitely seems interested since this went on for the ENTIRE DURATION of the 2 1/2 hour class.... ... My problem is finding how to approach her. I'm too shy to do it in the class during the beginning or end in front of others, unless it's class-related then I can get an entry. It seems the best time would be after class as she's leaving... tho in class she's with a friend, I don't know if she'd be with her friend when leaving as she tends to leave class later than I do, and I'd only have the courage to approach a girl when she's alone (wouldn't have the slightest clue how to approach a girl who's walking with a friend, I'd have to awkwardly interrupt them and ignore the other girl, doesn't seem plausible, haha..). Even though I'm more of an introvertive pisces, I don't see any problem once I find the right time to comfortably approach her, as I've already got a few conversation starters (class, her nose ring-which I just so happen to be getting my first [and only] nose piercing this weekend), I just need to find a way to approach her to talk and get her number. I only got another 2 weeks before this class ends and she'll be lost in the abyss of the thousands of other girls at college... also had a few premonition type thoughts over winter break about a girl with cute bangs and a nose ring...which describes her perfectly, so I don't want to let this one go. Any thoughts or advice? p.s. hadn't have a gf before, but don't think that matters d: I have asked two girls out before, one (or possibly both) had bf's at the time, so no dice Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 15, 2014 Share Posted January 15, 2014 Ask her if she'd like to study with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author maverick29 Posted January 15, 2014 Author Share Posted January 15, 2014 Ask her if she'd like to study with you. Good suggestion, though interterm you don't spend much time studying at all, it's way more laid back than regular school, spend just as much free than we do working/studying, if not more. so I'm thinking it'd be best to go on an actual date of some sort. Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted January 15, 2014 Share Posted January 15, 2014 Step up Mav and go for it. A movie, a coffee, or if you feel brave a few beers? Ask her. Good suggestion, though interterm you don't spend much time studying at all, it's way more laid back than regular school, spend just as much free than we do working/studying, if not more. so I'm thinking it'd be best to go on an actual date of some sort. Link to post Share on other sites
Author maverick29 Posted January 15, 2014 Author Share Posted January 15, 2014 I know, I definitely want to, but I'm not asking whether I should or shouldn't. I'm trying to figure out a good time to actually ask her since during class isn't suitable, so I'm thinking after class is best. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 15, 2014 Share Posted January 15, 2014 After class is best. that's also why I suggested that you start your approach with something having to do with class. It will give her a chance to interact with you outside of class & you can find out important info like her interests & whether she has a BF before you ask. Also after spending some one on one time studying it won't be a "cold" ask. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author maverick29 Posted January 15, 2014 Author Share Posted January 15, 2014 (edited) mk, I see what you're saying. From that perspective I might consider that. I'll just have to player stalker and see if she leaves class with her friend and if they part, that way I can get an easy entry to talk to her; I don't think trying to talk to two girls with the intent of only talking to one would bode well for me, also takes a ton more courage heh.. Edited January 15, 2014 by maverick29 Link to post Share on other sites
Author maverick29 Posted January 16, 2014 Author Share Posted January 16, 2014 well, today was a repeat of yesterday, she was staring my way and making direct eye contact for damn near 2 1/2 hours, even though she sits in front me. only thing is she seems to stay after class for awhile, as I tried to wait about 5-10 minutes, still no dice. but tomorrow we got a midterm so I'll just do my test fast as usual but then just go over my stuff until she turns in her test, then turn mine in quickly and catch her on her way out. should be a better scenario, considering everybody leaves at different times during tests, which means she probably won't be with anybody when she's leaving. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 On some level that sounds like a reasonable plan but I would have asked if she wants to study for the midterm with you tonight. Don't get so caught up in her that you blow your midterm. Test first. Romance second. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author maverick29 Posted January 16, 2014 Author Share Posted January 16, 2014 yeah I know, it's not a hard class and I got the studying down no sweat. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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