dreamcatcher975 Posted January 17, 2014 Share Posted January 17, 2014 (edited) I have read somewhere that if your spouse has truly moved on from the marriage then he wouldn't get angry about it. Everytime i talk to my H it ends up in some heated argument. I have been getting better at catching myself when i start to argue back but when i calm down he says things like.. "will you stop doing that!" If i ask questions his remarks are always either sarcastic or shallow, rather than mature and business like. What in the world is going on?? When i give in and say "ok" to the divorce, he's shallow, sarcastic, and angry. When i say "no" to the divorce he's unresponsive and annoyed. WTF? My IC says he's got terrible communication skills and his pride is overflowing. i think the best option for me right now is to face him and get some answers face to face rather than over the phone. I've also decided to go there and grab some of my things to bring back home. He's not being cooperative about that either. Once he needed to send me paper work for my vehicle and i figure he can throw some things in there too. I asked for small things like a hair straightener, curling iron, etc. really small things that could fit in a flat rate box along with paperwork. He replies says "ok". I wait.. 2 weeks.. nothing. I ask him about it says he sent it already. ok, i'll jus wait. 3 weeks..nothing. Finally i ask him again 4 weeks into it and he says he says he sent "yesterday" So i wait.. and finally something arrives in the mail. What was inside blew my mind. For someone who's so "sure" about this divorce -- he sends me a box of OLD mail.. about 4 months old… and random objects lying around even an eraser! and my old grocery list. None of the things i've asked for. why make it difficult for me when he's the one that initiated this all. I just "listened" to what he wanted. Any advice? Edited January 17, 2014 by dreamcatcher975 Link to post Share on other sites
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