Stevelpk Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 I'm thinking about trying underage dating. In October, I decided to give up sex until I get married because every time I had sex I would get paranoid that I my gf would get pregnant. When I was 12 my brother got his gf pregnant and he's always been pounding in my head not to make the same mistake. Last fall, I had a couple of close calls where my gf was late. I decided to wait until marriage for anymore sex. The problem is every girl that I have dated since is literally unzipping my pants by date #3. I'm a good looking guy but I'm going to be the biggest prude for awhile. The only problem is, without sex, my relationships are not lasting at all. I've been dumped twice in the last few months over this! I'm 20, and I've been thinking to date an underage girl around 14-16 years old. That way there won't be any thought of sex from the female. As for me, I can get into a euphoric high by holding hands. Anyone with underage age dating experience? Link to post Share on other sites
Janesays Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 This is a question for a lawyer as I can totally see you ending up in court if you want to chase after kids. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 At 20 if you date a girl under the age of 18 you risk going to jail & being labeled a pedophile for the rest of your life. If you actually date a 14 year old, you deserve that label. Try dating quality women. Don't even kiss them until the 3rd date & perhaps they won't be trying to unzip your pants. Plan dates that don't allow you to be alone in the beginning. Most women aren't going to go down on you in the middle of a theater, no matter how many times that cliché is replayed in porn. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BlametheIrish Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 At 14-16 lots of girls are thinking about sex, and loosing their virginity, Especially at 16. You need some serious help to find out why you would even consider dating girls in that age group. Its just sick and wrong!!!!!! Please get help 3 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 If you went after my 15 year old daughter sex wouldn't be an issue because I'd cut your dick off. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 OP, my uncle, god rest his soul, returned from the war at the wise old age of 26 and began dating my mom's sister, 16 at the time, and they got married when she was 18 and were married for 52 years until he died. Sure, that's one anecdote but it was quite common in my parents generation, though less so in mine, though my fSIL married her BF at age 16 and they're still married some 32 years later. Increasingly, with children focusing more on education and career, such 'young' relationships are increasingly more rare in our culture (US) but perhaps not in general. IMO, it all depends on the specifics of your culture and demographic. Presuming we've evolved since the mid-1940's, some 70 years ago, with young people being more worldly and mature today, there's no reason why teenage relationships can't work out. Some cultures support this by statute, making 16 an 'age of decision'. Big world, lots of choices and differences. If you show respect for the young lady and her family, the worst that could happen is it won't work out, as happens to billions of other people. Since you're going to remain celibate until marriage, interacting with a young lady this age should pass muster under any statute I'm aware of, as statutory rape applies in incidences of verifiable sexual contact. Given the age range you specified, post-puberty, in general, pedophilia statutes wouldn't apply due to the specifics age parameters, largely *pre* adolescent/pubescent, applicable. A teenager of 14-16 may not be developed completely yet psychologically (not for perhaps another decade or so) but certainly many/most 'like boys' and have sexual feelings and can reproduce and, like the lady in my example, my fSIL, did so at 16, and now is a proud grandmother of three (by her two daughters). Everyone is different. Good luck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Frank2thepoint Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 I'm 20, and I've been thinking to date an underage girl around 14-16 years old. AH HA! Found another thread that leads further down the rabbit hole. This one covers pedophilia. Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 My 16 year old half sister is dating some pedo in his 20s she met online when she was 14. He has no job and lives with his dad who's on the sex offender database for forcible rape of a 14 year old. Like father like son. I wish you as much luck as he had. It's shocking how often nonsense like that is accepted nowadays by terrible parents. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Targetlock Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 all i can say is: ugh, gross and stick to women your own age if you have any respect or decency. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Teraskas Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 Personally, I wouldn't do it. On the contrary, from your point of view I'd go for women my own age. If anything, I'd go for women in their mid to later 20s, as these are both in their prime and (more or less) know what they want from life. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I'm thinking about trying underage dating. In October, I decided to give up sex until I get married because every time I had sex I would get paranoid that I my gf would get pregnant. When I was 12 my brother got his gf pregnant and he's always been pounding in my head not to make the same mistake. Last fall, I had a couple of close calls where my gf was late. I decided to wait until marriage for anymore sex. The problem is every girl that I have dated since is literally unzipping my pants by date #3. I'm a good looking guy but I'm going to be the biggest prude for awhile. The only problem is, without sex, my relationships are not lasting at all. I've been dumped twice in the last few months over this! I'm 20, and I've been thinking to date an underage girl around 14-16 years old. That way there won't be any thought of sex from the female. As for me, I can get into a euphoric high by holding hands. Anyone with underage age dating experience? Dating minors is NOT the way to prevent this. Are you serious? That is the craziest thing I've read all year. Not only is it illegal but it's ridiculous. There are women who are celibate or not interested in having sex and are your age. Likewise lots of 14-1 are olds are having sex so it's also not some fool proof way to prevent sex. I think you need to learn how to be clear about what you want and look for women who agree to it who are adults and your age instead of dating children. Link to post Share on other sites
BJP56 Posted January 21, 2014 Share Posted January 21, 2014 I'm thinking about trying underage dating. In October, I decided to give up sex until I get married because every time I had sex I would get paranoid that I my gf would get pregnant. When I was 12 my brother got his gf pregnant and he's always been pounding in my head not to make the same mistake. Last fall, I had a couple of close calls where my gf was late. I decided to wait until marriage for anymore sex. The problem is every girl that I have dated since is literally unzipping my pants by date #3. I'm a good looking guy but I'm going to be the biggest prude for awhile. The only problem is, without sex, my relationships are not lasting at all. I've been dumped twice in the last few months over this! I'm 20, and I've been thinking to date an underage girl around 14-16 years old. That way there won't be any thought of sex from the female. As for me, I can get into a euphoric high by holding hands. Anyone with underage age dating experience? Have you any boundaries? Have you ever said no and mean it? It seems to me the ladies dont respect you. Dont be a fool! Link to post Share on other sites
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