PreciousOne Posted January 19, 2014 Share Posted January 19, 2014 I am the youngest of three of my grandmothers grandchildren and she has been staying with me for a couple of years. I've posted about this before but now I'm at the point where I don't care anymore I want he to move out because I'm tired of being disrespected in m own home. She babysits my sisters kids over here all the time they are ages 1 1/2 and 4yo and they have my apt looking like a train wreck she doesn't clean she is constantly nagging and complaining about a lot of things. She doesn't respect things I ask her to do she says crazy **** to company when I have any and allows people in that I don't want in, she doesn't help financially even though she has a paper route and makes descent money from doing so. She chooses to get high with her money and I don't think that its fair to me. Im not sure Of how to get her to move out without it being a big blow up. Any Suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 Oh, it's going to be a big blowup -- and your sister is going to be mad that you're evicting her babysitter, but she was a jerk to do that to you to begin with. And if you're gran is staying high a lot, a call to Child Protective Services might be in order. But assuming she's an occasional pot user not doing it or leaving it around in front of the kids, maybe not. Anyway, there's no way to extricate yourself from this without getting everyone mad, but you have every right to do it. They have all used you, so stop feeling sorry for any of them. Why isn't the sister having the grandmother live with her since she needs her for a nanny anyway (i'm not really asking -- I'm just saying there's no excuse). First, tell your sister and her husband that they have one month to make other arrangments for their children, that you will no longer be the janitor for their children and your mooching grandmother. Tell her the exact date it's going to stop. See if she has any solutions. Give her a few days to ruminate in case she finds a solution. Which I doubt. Then after that few days, put the grandmother on notice she has 30 days to move out. You can tell her why or not tell her why, but I tell you for sure this old broad knows she's mooching off you and leaving your home a mess. Tell her you have made other plans. Listen MOVE OUT yourself, if you must. An acquaintance of mine let her sister move in when she left her job at a prison and she had a prison "friend" with her. She let them stay there a little while and then told them they must go, and they wouldn't go. So she and her family just moved out, notified the landlord, and left it to him to evict them. I realize there may be leases and such, but if so, see if you can work it out. If you own, if you have to, sell the home and don't give them your new address. Getting rid of mooching inconsiderate family is never pretty or easy. Don't give in or they'll just keep it up. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 Paper route, getting high, babysitting ... just to make sure i got it right, how old is this person ? PS: Is she from Pasadena and drives a bright red muscle-rod by any chance ? Link to post Share on other sites
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