iplaymybassinthesun Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 Last night I went to a party with a group of friends. We drank, played pool and played cards for hours. Nobody got crazy and it was a perfectly enjoyable time. It wasn't until afterward that I realized how much better my social experiences are compared to years ago. There were nine of us. Four couples and me. That kind of thing isn't unusual for me. What is unusual is that I didn't even notice I was the odd person out in that way until after the party was over. Years ago I would have dwelled on it while it was happening and let it affect my good time. But I've gotten to the point where I can be myself and relaxed and have fun whether I'm the only single person there or not. I don't let that bother me anymore. So I guess my confidence is in a better place now. I still haven't the foggiest idea how to meet women and build attraction. But at least with social circles in general I don't feel anywhere near the self-consciousness that I used to 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 Ask your friends if they know any nice people they could introduce you to. Then next time you will have even #s for pool & cards Link to post Share on other sites
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