Snipercatt Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 He and his wife have had sex with many others, according to you, and now you are asking about swinging. There are some very nasty strains of STDs out there, proceed with caution. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Appreciate Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 I get your point. I might miss a part of the whole story. That he could find out his wife cheating on him is because he by accident accessed to his wife's account of Skype or something else( it's worse I think), and copied all the history of chatting. He said they were proofs and asked me to keep them for him. I read them. Some were print screen with pics. So I believed he did not lie. And the youngest kid's biological father, I also knew him. He and i chatted a bit before everything was disclosed. I can say she has his DNA by seeing their pics. So what do u think? honestly, im so puzzled. Anyway, I APPRICIATE you help me here. Well, in that case... I think you should get checked for STDs (full scan) and run away from these two. Unless you are interested in a threesome, which I doubt you are. Sounds like either he broke one of the "rules" for their playing around, or they are just messed up. Or both. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Littleshark Posted January 23, 2014 Author Share Posted January 23, 2014 (edited) Well, in that case... I think you should get checked for STDs (full scan) and run away from these two. Unless you are interested in a threesome, which I doubt you are. Sounds like either he broke one of the "rules" for their playing around, or they are just messed up. Or both. I am totally fine. I was aware what the crazy couple did, so I got checked after meeting him. Edited January 23, 2014 by Littleshark Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 Littleshark We all have stories. Some worse that others. You heard his sob story that he told you and I have to tell you one important thing. You heard his side and for some reason you take it as gospel truth and I think your old enough that there's two sides to every story. Just some friendly advice. Some guys will say anything, do anything just to get their hand warm. He's a married man. That's a no no and I think you know that. He has kids and a wife. If she's that bad and she's been cheating for that long, he has a choice to either stay or get divorced and until then he should be off limits. Messing around with a married man can come back and haunt you and it may be something that can bring more trouble that you could handle. Just my thought so think a bit on this. Link to post Share on other sites
Appreciate Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 It sounds like she knew what she was getting into. Was that part of the attraction for you, LittleShark? It sounds like you got pulled into their crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 @owl I betrayed and hurt her? She cheated on her husband. And her husband promised me a future but dumped me finally. Ok then it's fair to us. Thx. You are funny. He SAYS she cheated on him. Do you KNOW that personally? You, however, knowingly and intentionally got involved with him, fully aware that he was married. Yes...you hurt her. Deliberately and intentionally. And there's no humor in my posts, nor in your situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Appreciate Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 He SAYS she cheated on him. Do you KNOW that personally? You, however, knowingly and intentionally got involved with him, fully aware that he was married. Yes...you hurt her. Deliberately and intentionally. And there's no humor in my posts, nor in your situation. LittleShark wrote: That he could find out his wife cheating on him is because he by accident accessed to his wife's account of Skype or something else( it's worse I think), and copied all the history of chatting. He said they were proofs and asked me to keep them for him. I read them. Some were print screen with pics. So I believed he did not lie. And the youngest kid's biological father, I also knew him. He and i chatted a bit before everything was disclosed. I can say she has his DNA by seeing their pics. Either way, LittleShark, his wife cheating on him doesn't give you the right to interfere with their marriage. How do two wrongs make a right? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Littleshark Posted January 23, 2014 Author Share Posted January 23, 2014 @appriciate You are right. I have no right to interfere their marriage even if his wife cheated on him. Link to post Share on other sites
Anne Boleyn Posted January 24, 2014 Share Posted January 24, 2014 Honestly, I think this was a carefully set up thing to kind of lure you in... So much of what he did makes no sense unless he was running a scam. He found her Skype transcripts of an affair, so he copied them, pasted them, and sent them to you to be held onto? He arraigned it so you could chat with the man his wife had an affair with? Neither of those things make sense... Other than the obvious, that the transcripts can be faked and unless you were talking face-to-face with the guy his wife was cheating on, he could have faked that too... I don't know, it sounds like he was running a scam and would have carried it out longer, save for the fact that his wife found out. I think that it's best to cut your losses, cut your ties, don't text him, change your number, and let it go. So much of it sounds like a racket, I think he was working the "woe is me" angle, and sealed it with big promises of a future he really knew he couldn't provide. Link to post Share on other sites
BeholdtheMan Posted January 24, 2014 Share Posted January 24, 2014 Four years ago, I met a guy who was 22 years older than me. He has a big family with 5 kids. We had very great chatting each time. We understood the other so much. It's always that he or I could spoke out what the other was going to say. That was amazing and I did feel great to spend my time chatting with him. I respected him and his family. Chats up a married man on Skype...yet "respects his family" Right... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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