Aspasia33 Posted February 5, 2014 Share Posted February 5, 2014 For those who ask what am I doing with hubby and that I should look into my marriage and that single guy is doing me a favor: yes, you are all right. Still, I cannot change my situation right now. Is it too much to ask that single guy stop looking for other women online while with me? It is really too much?? No it's not to much to ask. I told my MM that I did not want him having sex with his wife while I was being exclusive to him. Took me quite a while to believe that he is now exclusive to me. If you are not having sex with your husband, then yes you can ask single guy to be exclusive to you. Of course it's up to him if he does or not, and you have no way of knowing if he is or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Aspasia33 Posted February 5, 2014 Share Posted February 5, 2014 (edited) How do we know resolutes single guy is not into her? The only person who knows that is single guy. I find the cruelty here to someone that is hurting breathtaking.moving this post to infidelity is like throwing the Christians to the lions. My take on it ( through my experiences with a 10 single guy) is he really digs her. But he doesn't want to get hurt. Most men do not want engagements with mw just for sex, to much of a hassle, esoecially when they know the woman is attached to them. Irresolute is not asking about her husband, as this is not the forum titled " support for those spouses trapped in a marriage with a jerk" It's the " support forum for those who are unfaithful or whise partners are unfaithful?" To quite William, don't you people read the headings? "You've got a rough year ahead of you, and you are an emotional mess. Unrequited love is one of those most painful kinds of love, and it is killing you right now. Have you gone to see a doctor? You could probably benefit from med or sleeping pills. He's probably going to contact you at some point, but what are you going to say when he does? Doesn't sound like you are ready to deliver any kind of ultimatum. It's not that he's indecisiveness, it's that he's not as in to you as you are to him. I will keep reminding you of this until it sinks in. Are you seeing any one else? No. You don't want to be with anyone else (not even your H). Is he seeing other people? Yes! Why? Because he wants to and he has no obligation to anyone. He enjoys the company of women and having different relationships. Not just sex, but adventures in emotional connections. He likes the variety, the chase, the drama. He probably doesn't understand how much he is hurting you, just like you don't understand how much it's going to hurt your husband when he finds out. You've got to find a way to get this man out of your system. He's thinking about you a fraction as much as you are thinking about him. Edited February 5, 2014 by Aspasia33 Spelling Link to post Share on other sites
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