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we ended nc - and back into the affair


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I think he knows I'm done he talked more and more over leaving his w - then whenever I mentioned it it was like I'd turned into some bunny boiler he gave very mixed messages and I like to know where I stand with people I'm tired of the back and fourth push/pull crap

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When you end it...you need to end ANY communication with him. Otherwise, it's just drama, not an ending.

 

There should be no question in your mind that he "gets it" that you're done. It should be stated clearly, unequivocally, unmistakeably, in bright, bold letters that have been underlined with quotation marks around them.

 

You TELL him it's over. Then, you SHOW him that it's over by blocking him, not contacting him, and preventing any further contact from him.

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