mhvlon Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 About a year and a half ago, I told one of my friends that I thought she was great to be around and I'd love to be with her more often. She took it the wrong way, and immediately isolated herself from me. For the first week I told her that I was sorry for the way I acted, but she didn't seem to accept it. The problem here is that in that year and a half time span, I never really made any other attempt to reconcile and neither did she. Therefore, we're so far apart that whenever we're in the same room with people we know, we just look the other way and think that the other person isn't there. In short, we ignore each other. Now, for some reason, one of her friends is trying to patch things up between us, but I don't think she's doing it the right way. Should I just tell the person who ignores me that maybe it's time we started over on a clean slate. It's driving me crazy because recently, it's as if though we're trying to become less hostile, and I feel that now is the time to put these childish actions behind us and just start over. HELP! Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Just talk to her and clarify what your intentions were and what you meant when you told her you wanted to spend more time together. Explain how you enjoy her company and would find her friendship an asset in your life. If she can't understand this then you may need to accept the fact that she may just not want to be friends with you. Link to post Share on other sites
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