ferny Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Can someone who had a crush on you in the past may have a crush on you if they see you again? I'm engaged to a great man but his brother used to have a crush on me, before i even met his brother who is now my fiancee. We never dated or were friends, I knew he liked me because he told an acquantaince about it. I didn't know my current boyfriend was his brother. Can he forget about liking me in the past and see me as a sister? He felt uneasy when he found out I was dating his brother. Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Who knows. It's possible he still has feelings for you. Thing is both you and him will just have to learn to deal with it. You're marrying his brother, if he ever mentions his feelings you just be firm, honest and up front. "This is the way it is, I don't feel the same and I'm marrying your brother." One day at a time. Link to post Share on other sites
katie79 Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 actually...i did date my sister's husband 3 years before they dated. Before you all come down on me or anything regarding this, I was 18, my sister was in a relationship with another guy, he was her friend from class (now her husband), and she set us up on a couple of dates. I had no feelings for him other than a friend or a "brotherly type". It was a few casual dates. Absolutley nothing happened. No strong feelings and no hard ones either. She wound up dumping the other guy a few years later, bumped into him, he asked her out, she accepted (after she checked if it was ok with me) and they became serious and got married. To this day, there is no weirdness or anything of that sort. Sometimes things work out like that and as long as the present if okay, no worries. At least that's how I see it. Link to post Share on other sites
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