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bostonterrier

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Just thinking about it makes me puke, it looks like women are not attracted to me, but so many gay men hit on me, I feel like puking:sick:

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somedude81

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You're misunderstanding.

 

Gay men are far more likely to hit on a guy than women are. That's all that means.

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PegNosePete

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Why are you only attractive to gay men? Well, straight men aren't going to find you attractive now are they!

 

How are you judging this statistical analysis on your attractiveness? By how many times you get hit on?

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Perhaps you have femine qualities gay men find attractive, and some women don't?

 

Not passing jusgement as I have a very good looking male friend, married, who attracts a lot of gay men. My female friends have all said he is kind of femine, girly even, so that is probably why.

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My gf thinks I dress metro-sexually. Clean-cut, clean-shaven and she thought, early on that I may be gay. LOL! What's funnier is that, in college, quite a few gay guys thought so too and this even when I was dating women and with them! Sheesh.

 

Anyway, gay guys tend to have good taste. :) They find you attractive. Women may not b/c, perhaps, you have more effeminate qualities? Ask yourself....

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bostonterrier

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Yes, but I'm talking about the way I look physically, I don't look or dress like a gay man, very few woman may find me attractive...

 

Perhaps you have femine qualities gay men find attractive, and some women don't?

 

Not passing jusgement as I have a very good looking male friend, married, who attracts a lot of gay men. My female friends have all said he is kind of femine, girly even, so that is probably why.

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I had a friend who was like that. Really good looking but had no confidence so the gay dudes loved him. Once he got some (confidence) the women loved him too.

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Philosoraptor

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I've been hit on by a lot of gay guys. Just take it as a positive and have some fun with it.

 

I like to wink at them right as I'm leaving. Boosts their self esteem and gives them a jolt of happiness. I'm just ignore it until I'm leaving though just so I don't have an awkward conversation about how I'm not gay or interested. But at the end I just do it as a nice gesture... never hurts to bring someone else happiness.

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somedude81

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I've been hit on by a lot of gay guys. Just take it as a positive and have some fun with it.

 

I like to wink at them right as I'm leaving. Boosts their self esteem and gives them a jolt of happiness. I'm just ignore it until I'm leaving though just so I don't have an awkward conversation about how I'm not gay or interested. But at the end I just do it as a nice gesture... never hurts to bring someone else happiness.

Eh, it's easy to take it as a positive when things are going well for you with women, and I believe you are engaged, correct?

 

No straight guy who is struggling with women would be happy that only gay men show interest.

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Eh, it's easy to take it as a positive when things are going well for you with women, and I believe you are engaged, correct?

 

No straight guy who is struggling with women would be happy that only gay men show interest.

Oh when I was single, before I ever had my first date, I felt the same way. But I do try to live by my motto of trying to find a little bit of happiness in every moment.

 

As the commercials say, your results may vary.

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somedude81

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Oh when I was single, before I ever had my first date, I felt the same way. But I do try to live by my motto of trying to find a little bit of happiness in every moment.

As the commercials say, your results may vary.

Though it's a bit easier to live by that motto when your life is going well ;)

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Consider it a compliment.

 

Gay men have style, and they know a good looking man when they see one.

 

If a gay man thinks you're attractive, then you probably are.

 

Just go out there and approach women. Don't be shy.

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I would say gay men are more forward then women with flirting and comments….and also I think they may have a wider variety of male body types that turns them on. For example most gals don't like big muscle guys - or burly guys. Some gays love body builders and also some love the burly (I think they call them Bears) men – also some like feminine men.

 

Over the years I have had gays make a pass or comment - even gay friends or coworkers of my wife - in front of my wife.

 

But in this day and age who does not like a nice compliment?

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Lol it's probably because you don't portray much confidence.... gay guys probably get the vibe that you might be gay. If gay guys find you attractive, then so do women, it's just that you're most likely giving off a vibe that says you might be gay which is turning women off.

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