LaylaSings Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 I would see no contact if that was the agreement as respectful, not hurtful. If my OM asked for no contact it would be incredibly painful for me but I would never want to hurt him and if contacting him meant causing him stress and pain that's seems so disrespectful. If you have asked him not to contact you, take it to mean he actually cared and is respecting your wishes. To me it means they do care, not that they don't. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
blueseptember Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 My MM never asked for NC, he just said no more cheating. He never asked me not to contact him, not to call text or email....he just said no more cheating. I took that as NC. Is that the same, or did I leave the door open (or did he?) Link to post Share on other sites
AlwaysGrowing Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 I agree that maintaining NC by either party is being respectful. Having self respect and respecting others. However, being respectful does not necessarily mean either party cares about the other. Link to post Share on other sites
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