TranslucentThoughts Posted January 14, 2005 Share Posted January 14, 2005 Yup! I have a date! On Saturday! I actually met him about 3 years ago at a music festival that I attend every summer. We've been talking quite a bit lately over msn and we decided to go to a movie together on Saturday... to catch up and just have some fun! Anyway... he's a really nice guy and very attractive! Hehe. I'm looking forward to it. Since me and my bf have been broken up it's been really hard to get on with my life but just knowing that someone is interested in me and that i'm able to get out there and experience something new makes me feel so much better. Wish me luck! Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted January 14, 2005 Share Posted January 14, 2005 Did you go to that new years party???? That you posted about your ex being there?? Good luck with the date. Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted January 14, 2005 Share Posted January 14, 2005 People on LS and friends have been telling me the best way to get over someone you are missing is to start dating again. Quick poll here people - how long has it been for you from the time of break-up before the first true date (and going out for coffee doesn't count). Reason for asking - I have been separated for 6 months and haven't been on a date. I haven't even been asked yet, so it's not like I am chosing to sit at home. Just want to see if I am 'normal'? Way to go Translucent Thoughts! Have fun. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted January 14, 2005 Share Posted January 14, 2005 I just got out of a relationship about 6 to 7 months ago and haven't went out on a date since then. So, I have been just been steady with work and hanging out with friends. I just don't want the same out come from my last realtionship. Three of Swords you are normal and fine. So, don't worry about it just try to keep yuor self going. Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 15, 2005 Share Posted January 15, 2005 three, i went on a few dates early on but honestly i wasn't ready for that. funny thing is that 2 of them were just ouf of relationships so i ended up as the counselor and not a date but it was ok. i recently have started dating someone and i'm out of the woods. about a month or so ago. it's been 9 since the breakup. don't worry. some people have to heal and regrouop before they can get back up on the horse that kicked them. some others screw anything that walks and then have to dseal w/ the pain later on. i say it's better to get it out of the way sooner than later. otherwise you could go back to an ex who is unsuitable for you and ruin the healing. Link to post Share on other sites
Sukotto Posted January 15, 2005 Share Posted January 15, 2005 i went on my first date 2 months after the relationship ended. Was good at distracting me and made me see that there are indeed many other people out there and not eventhing revolves around the ex. I went on 3 dates with the same person before I decided to run away. Link to post Share on other sites
alicia24 Posted January 15, 2005 Share Posted January 15, 2005 Good luck with your date. Relax and have fun and make the most of it. Link to post Share on other sites
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