RaidDolEm78 Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 I'm vowing to love smarter the next time I get into a relationship. At first, I swore off relationships forever. I think that's a common reaction. But after sitting back and really reflecting on everything last night, I came up with this conclusion. Ive had quite a few serious relationships in my life so far. But they were all started emotionally. Maybe that's not the right word. For example, my very first boyfriend and I broke up in high school. 8 years later, we got back together. I was caught up on the emotions and fairy tale of my first love coming back, instead of realizing why it didn't work out the first time. Other relationships started because I was flattered they liked me. This most recent breakup- when we first met, he told me he had a crush on me for years and years before we even started talking. I was hooked. It took me almost 36 years to realize I've been handling relationships wrong. Once I'm fully healed, I truly believe this will help me achieve that healthy relationship I've slways wanted. Link to post Share on other sites
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