Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 Since you two seem to like music... i've been listening to this one.. This was one of the last songs I learned/played and sang to her before she left,the one you posted ! Found this today,bellow.. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 I saw that videos discover , its really nice ! How are you doing today? Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 I'm jamming onto this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 (edited) I'm jamming onto this. Today is awful! I feel kind of sad but not too much..she acts like she is ok and talks about things that may hurt me so I am definetly ok..there is one thing that bothers me tough! She wanted to go home together and I avoided that by getting into my friends car and going home with him..it just hurt to see her go alone,of course her friends got to her I guess they wanted me to go alone with her..I don't know..but I am a bit taken aback...she tried to sit next to me I think but my friend sat next to me...Blah... < Look at this Bubbles,I think I will cry while watching this today! Listen! P.S Check the thread : "It hurts so much..." I believe you two,girls can help! I am trying but I know you will be a good friend as you two are exactly in the same situation! Edited February 11, 2014 by Discover Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 I feel awful, did I do wrong by ignoring her?...I am so sad..I miss the memories.. Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 I feel awful, did I do wrong by ignoring her?...I am so sad..I miss the memories.. You did nothing wrong man. You're doing it all right. You're showing her what its like to not have you in her life. That's what she wanted. You two can't be friends, she knows that, she just wanted to help her own guilt of hurting you. Now you're showing her what she has done. This was all her...this was her doing. She's forced you to do this. Don't pitty her or feel bad. You're doing it all right. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 You did nothing wrong man. You're doing it all right. You're showing her what its like to not have you in her life. That's what she wanted. You two can't be friends, she knows that, she just wanted to help her own guilt of hurting you. Now you're showing her what she has done. This was all her...this was her doing. She's forced you to do this. Don't pitty her or feel bad. You're doing it all right. Thank you man,I am so greatful..I am about to cry because there was someone for me..I thought the same but I just,can't stand her sad look.. Hey xUnknow,I just recieved an e-mail that I have been accepted for 5 universities out of 5 in England and I am pretty worried of telling my parents..Especially when I have planned to stay in my home country, I really want to study this and I actually sent my documents because of her with the idea to go to university together..now I am so confused on what to do..I have to do what I want to right?...I mean,I want to study in my country and in order for me to get accepted means I have to bust my a** the next two months... I am really worried.. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Thank you man,I am so greatful..I am about to cry because there was someone for me..I thought the same but I just,can't stand her sad look.. Hey xUnknow,I just recieved an e-mail that I have been accepted for 5 universities out of 5 in England and I am pretty worried of telling my parents..Especially when I have planned to stay in my home country, I really want to study this and I actually sent my documents because of her with the idea to go to university together..now I am so confused on what to do..I have to do what I want to right?...I mean,I want to study in my country and in order for me to get accepted means I have to bust my a** the next two months... I am really worried.. I know what you mean. But then again, does she stand to see you this upset? Doesn't that make you angry? Don't feel bad for her. Show her that you're better than this and deserve better - because you do! That's great man. You have to do some soul searching. You have to do what YOU want to do. Don't do it with the hopes that things work themselves out in the end, because then you're just giving yourself hope and not making the decision for the best reasons - or for you. Figure out where you want to go and do that. You're parents will understand if you want to travel elsewhere for school. This is your life, and your time. You have to decide...for you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 I know what you mean. But then again, does she stand to see you this upset? Doesn't that make you angry? Don't feel bad for her. Show her that you're better than this and deserve better - because you do! That's great man. You have to do some soul searching. You have to do what YOU want to do. Don't do it with the hopes that things work themselves out in the end, because then you're just giving yourself hope and not making the decision for the best reasons - or for you. Figure out where you want to go and do that. You're parents will understand if you want to travel elsewhere for school. This is your life, and your time. You have to decide...for you. I know,I am just wondering because I would have went with her,I think. But now I want to stay in my country,move to the capital (hopefully get accepted there) and after my bachelor to go in another country for my masters degree..I just wonder what to do in means of getting accepted and not being left out from everywhere.. Thank you,I guess reading your answer made m realize that the question was a bit stupid when my heart and mind is telling me to stay,xa? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 First of all Discover, you did nothing wrong like xUnknown said. You are doing it right. You CANT be friends with your ex not so soon atleast. You need to heal. Think about yourself , dont feel bad. She left you didnt she? Now it is your turn to think about you! You are doing nothing wrong. Dont let her make you feel guilty. Secondly, Woah! Congratulations buddy! Thats amazing news. If you really liked those universities you should totally go for it. I am sure your parents would want the best of you and wont deny it. Do what you have to. What you feel the right thing to do. Feel free to ask me I myself am doing my masters. PS : I am looking at the thread now PPS : Can you believe it? I slept the entire day. Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 (edited) I know,I am just wondering because I would have went with her,I think. But now I want to stay in my country,move to the capital (hopefully get accepted there) and after my bachelor to go in another country for my masters degree..I just wonder what to do in means of getting accepted and not being left out from everywhere.. Thank you,I guess reading your answer made m realize that the question was a bit stupid when my heart and mind is telling me to stay,xa? Keep thinking about it. I think what your answer above shows is that originally, you were wanting to go out of the country for her...so, you were basing your life for her. She is no longer there, so now you have nobody to influence your decision on. If you want to go, then do it, go - but do it for you. My ex just told me on Friday that she was forwarded a job offer for her dream job closer to home (back where she went to school about an hour away from me vs. the 3 hours we are now). She mentioned how its what she wanted and still wants and it would be closer to her family and closer to me. That means a lot to me knowing she is considering moving and I may be a factor. But I told her "you can't even think that I'm in the picture. You can't make this decision because of me, or your family, you have to do it for you. Apply and see what happens. Take it step by step. If you end up getting an offer, then make your decision then. But there is no problem with applying. You just have to make this decision for you, because it is what YOU want and what is best for you". So in a sense, my ex is in your shoes. She's gotta make the decision because it is what she wants and whats best for her. Just as you have to make the decision for your school because that is what is best for you. Edited February 11, 2014 by xUnknown 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 Good Job Bubbles on the sleeping! :) Made me happy! Thank you xUnknow, I appreciate it, i can't hide that it was because of her so i am giving up on that idea and going to study really hard for my exams here!Good luck with your situation! Bubbles,Masters in what? If it is ok to ask of course and how are you today? Feeling better I hope:)! P.S Thank you for writing to Failedfirstlove,she needed it and you two are alike indeed so you will be able to support each other! And I can't believe you cheat on me by checking his posts !!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Good Job Bubbles on the sleeping! :) Made me happy! Thank you xUnknow, I appreciate it, i can't hide that it was because of her so i am giving up on that idea and going to study really hard for my exams here!Good luck with your situation! Bubbles,Masters in what? If it is ok to ask of course and how are you today? Feeling better I hope:)! P.S Thank you for writing to Failedfirstlove,she needed it and you two are alike indeed so you will be able to support each other! And I can't believe you cheat on me by checking his posts !!! Yea, I feel good as well Sleeping the entire day is new thing for me wow. Good luck for the exams! I am sure you will do great And I am doing masters in finance & I am feeling alot better after sleeping. Wide Awake like an owl now. It wasnt a problem , her and my situation are so alike, I could actually see myself in it. I do cheat but its getting OCCASIONAL , I mean I used to see his status etc like every one hour in the starting but now its like once every 2-3 days I feel better Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 Yea, I feel good as well Sleeping the entire day is new thing for me wow. Good luck for the exams! I am sure you will do great And I am doing masters in finance & I am feeling alot better after sleeping. Wide Awake like an owl now. It wasnt a problem , her and my situation are so alike, I could actually see myself in it. I do cheat but its getting OCCASIONAL , I mean I used to see his status etc like every one hour in the starting but now its like once every 2-3 days I feel better Yei,you keep making me happy today Bubbles! Like really! I am so happy for you! Sorry to spam it, but look at this..my God Bubbles I will just shoot.. Do you think I can find a girl who is a bit shy,in love with me till the very end and needing me in her life? Not a girl who wants to go out every time she can to bars,when she does to be arriving at home and seeing me sleeping on the couch as I have fallen asleep while waiting for her? Someone to be cherishing me more than anything else, without making it suffocating..someone I can trust..? The funny thing is that me and my ex fought about her friends because of whom she lost her previous boyfriend,anyway I am wondering..she tells me 5days after the fight "We will make it work, you are more important to me than them" while I am waiting for her to make up her mind she parties with them and being with them nonstop,they are all guys and I grew to dislike their characters ( am I the fault?) and after that she leaves me with "I can't be with someone with whom I fight because of them,I cherish them" or something like that...now I know how it sounds, and believe me I have never stopped her from doing anything, just when it got too much I talked with her... LOOK>>> < I am like him,I need a girl like her (sorry,I am still a bit of a child when it comes to my interests and talking about them! ) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Yei,you keep making me happy today Bubbles! Like really! I am so happy for you! Sorry to spam it, but look at this..my God Bubbles I will just shoot.. Do you think I can find a girl who is a bit shy,in love with me till the very end and needing me in her life? Not a girl who wants to go out every time she can to bars,when she does to be arriving at home and seeing me sleeping on the couch as I have fallen asleep while waiting for her? Someone to be cherishing me more than anything else, without making it suffocating..someone I can trust..? The funny thing is that me and my ex fought about her friends because of whom she lost her previous boyfriend,anyway I am wondering..she tells me 5days after the fight "We will make it work, you are more important to me than them" while I am waiting for her to make up her mind she parties with them and being with them nonstop,they are all guys and I grew to dislike their characters ( am I the fault?) and after that she leaves me with "I can't be with someone with whom I fight because of them,I cherish them" or something like that...now I know how it sounds, and believe me I have never stopped her from doing anything, just when it got too much I talked with her... LOOK>>> < I am like him,I need a girl like her (sorry,I am still a bit of a child when it comes to my interests and talking about them! ) Good! Be happy Smile! Oh god who is this person? What is the girl doing to him. She is playing with his head. That video is so cute. I dont know, I just miss someone being there for me like that. Its not childish, its a good thing to talk about things you like Discover. Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Yea, I feel good as well Sleeping the entire day is new thing for me wow. Good luck for the exams! I am sure you will do great And I am doing masters in finance & I am feeling alot better after sleeping. Wide Awake like an owl now. It wasnt a problem , her and my situation are so alike, I could actually see myself in it. I do cheat but its getting OCCASIONAL , I mean I used to see his status etc like every one hour in the starting but now its like once every 2-3 days I feel better Bubbles, hide him from your feed. You'll have to go to his page to do it, so make it your last. Try your best not to look. But under the drop down that says "friends" click the option hide from your feed, or hide notifications. That way nothing he posts will show up. Also, do this for his close friends, so you don't get updates from him via his friends. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 Good! Be happy Smile! Oh god who is this person? What is the girl doing to him. She is playing with his head. That video is so cute. I dont know, I just miss someone being there for me like that. Its not childish, its a good thing to talk about things you like Discover. I don't know Bubbles, I wonder whether I will find a girl like my description or the one in the video or someone even better..I really want to love someone...Nah.she is not playing with his head, you should check this manga..it is amazing,bought the books with my ex to read them, I have hidden them for now but I will definetely finish reading it! The story is amazing! And yes, I too miss being like this to someone! And do what xUnknow told you! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Okay..I think I will do it now. To resist any further temptations. Oh god..I dont think I can click on his page..Ok doing it. And those videos were cute, you will definitely find someone like that Discover! Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Bubbles, hide him from your feed. You'll have to go to his page to do it, so make it your last. Try your best not to look. But under the drop down that says "friends" click the option hide from your feed, or hide notifications. That way nothing he posts will show up. Also, do this for his close friends, so you don't get updates from him via his friends. I clicked on friends it doesnt say hide from feed..God I need to go away from his page fast before I throw up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 I clicked on friends it doesnt say hide from feed..God I need to go away from his page fast before I throw up. Get the hell out of there,right now! Do it woman! He is no one to you stop stalking strangers you can get called in court! Man I wish I could PM you...! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Get the hell out of there,right now! Do it woman! He is no one to you stop stalking strangers you can get called in court! Man I wish I could PM you...! I was trying to do what xUnknown asked me to but it doesnt show the option to stop it from appearing on news feed. And I started seeing his pics Ugh. I feel like I am going to throw up. Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 I left the page though. Feeling nauseous I wish I could pm you as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Discover Posted February 11, 2014 Author Share Posted February 11, 2014 I left the page though. Feeling nauseous I wish I could pm you as well. It is all okay Bubbles,forget about it, just don't go on that social media for a while and if you need it then try to avoid everything about him!!! Now SMILE for me,that young-childish Discover! And if you want let's chat, just say about what 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 I clicked on friends it doesnt say hide from feed..God I need to go away from his page fast before I throw up. Uncheck the "follow" button. Also, if you're "Acquaintances" click that to "un-star" it and the "close friends" Or, Block him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubblesbursted Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 I unchecked on follow button and removed him from close friends. I am just a little pukish. I dont know its normal I guess? Hmm lets chat then, Which movies did you see lately? Link to post Share on other sites
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