lj3 Posted January 29, 2014 Share Posted January 29, 2014 Hi to simplify a long story..I am/was in a 3 year relationship. I found my girl talking to other men shortly after I moved in and left my life behind for her in search for a better life. I forgave her for that and blamed myself for looking. I gave her a letter from a guy in prison cuz I wanted to be honest and confident. I was living there. She is rich and im poor trting to survive...I found oit a year later she had been writing him and planning marriage..she denied it until I pit proof in her face..finally admitted caused arguments..then promised money owed for my school truck driving..then kicked me out..so months went by then took me back seduced me told me all the letters I saw were old news and I was the one she wanted..so I believed her she said she wasn't talking to him anymore he wasn't replacing me and it was over and hadn't talked to him in a while..I found more letters and poems and lies and now im crazy all over again im worried..she says its my behavior while I feel used for labor around the house..I wanna believe her but I found she cant be trusted..she sent him money without expecting back while she threatens me for 50$.. so im confused is it my behavior is she lieing still? Most people say just leave her but its not easy for me to do that..I always felt compared to him he does general contracting/roofing and is a bull**** artist..im an electrician and feel less cuz I cant remodel her house like him or hes better..this drives me crazy every second of the day..is she evil a player a liar or is it my fault advice in detail would help emensly thanx Link to post Share on other sites
ZMM Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 I always felt compared to him he does general contracting/roofing and is a bull**** artist..im an electrician and feel less cuz I cant remodel her house like him or hes better Man, if she looks at it that way, I wouldn't bother sticking around. Actually, from what you said, I wouldn't stick around anyway. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 The draw of prison is strong. Is there that much of a shortage of women in your area? Maybe you live around here. Sounds familiar! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RickFox Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 He's in prison for a reason, not county jail, not city jail, PRISON! Let her have him, walk away and wish her a wonderful life with her convict husband to be. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Appreciate Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 She sounds like trash. And like trash, she will eventually be dumped by this guy she is infatuated with. You sound like you need to work on your self-esteem. She doesn't respect you and will continue to lie and cheat if you were to stay together. Get her out of your life and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lj3 Posted January 30, 2014 Author Share Posted January 30, 2014 Thanx for all replies! Cargill what do u mean the draw of prison is strong?...chopsticks..there is good aboit her not just money she makes me happy but I always find when I look cuz we used to share when I lived there..I love her in a cardboard box or a fancy home its hard to leave..I always want to be number one man but she is a player and psychotic at times..appreciate u r right iam one of the few "nice guys that would stay around and I feel all women want bad boys I can be but my self esteem is low due to low financial status...I always felt compared to him and how im too skinny or too fair skinned or too this or too that....so I try and try and its never good enough...then she takes me back to feed me more b.s....she feeds him money left and right so I feel she looks at him better than me I bet hes using her as iam not...she blames my behavior when she is wrong for playing with my emotions and lieing my behavior is due to her cheating emotional or actual I continue to be crazy and go back its like an addiction like I enjoy pain...shortage of women..no im just broke what woman wants a broke man im trying but im losing hope just hanging on by a thread of hope trying to quit ciggs trying to gain weight lift weights martial arts im just trying too hard Link to post Share on other sites
Author lj3 Posted January 30, 2014 Author Share Posted January 30, 2014 I cant stop thinking aboit how I left my life for her and she gave all my hopes and dreams to him..a b uissness..school..cheaper rent till I get on my feet she is evil all the letters I found run through my head constantly I torture myself my dog and furniture is there what is she robin rich take from the poor and give to the rich?..I know I shouldn't contact her I do that in hopes she realizes what she had me! But it should be about me not her im feeding her ego im crazy been crazy for a while over her I just dont know how to solve it? Let her go in hopes of getting back? Let her go forever (very hard to do)..wait and keep waiting im jealous of all these other guys and she tells me she still loves me and etc is it pity? Y does she still act like I have a chance when I feel im second or third? I know my thouggts r weak and irrational I just cant take it anymore im searching for truth waiting to see if hes gonna move in she lies constantly about everything! Y would she mess with my head so badly? Link to post Share on other sites
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