sugarpea Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) Hello Is it possible for people to change their mind about committing to things. My ex and I we did not want to get married and we didn't want kids. I still don't want those things. But I was wondering if it is possible that he changed his mindset suddenly about those things. Is that possible? He's with someone else at the moment, going on 5mths, was LDR but she's actually coming over here in a few days. But not the point. He suddenly changed his preferences about dating girls like her, who he wouldn't have gone with before...she's not pretty at all - not my opinion also others. Makes me self-conscious actually for him to downgrade. Anyway...at the start I thought it was quarter-life crisis, or rebound, or even GIG's, but I really don't know anymore. Just wondering if I should prepare myself for him proposing /marrying her. It's been 5mths official but he's already met her family and friends, she's met half his family and friends. She's coming over to stay at his place for university. (we didn't do that till 3 yrs into relationship -living together). He's learning her stupid language-think he's going to study it at university too with what zero money he has, but he wouldn't learn my language. probably cause I'm not foreign enough - raised here. Sorry don't mean to offend, I just hate them. Edited January 30, 2014 by sugarpea Link to post Share on other sites
DorkBreakfast Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 He's your ex for a reason. Cut all ties and move on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Yes people change their mind about commitment. Just because a man says he doesn't want commitment to one girl, it sure doesn't mean he would rule it out with a girl he was crazy about. Look, it doesn't matter if you are better looking than her. The fact is, he didn't want commitment with you yet he wants it with her. He could be crazy about her even though she is not very "pretty" in the opinion of you and your mates... But yes, many guys tell certain girls they don't want commitment, only to meet a girl who knocks their socks off and immediately want to commit to them. Happens every day! Link to post Share on other sites
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