what to do is there a chance

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Will she come back What to do

 

Hey sup to all. I need a lot of help me and my girlfriend has been dating for 2 years. we loved each other so much. We were good to each other all the time. Lately things have been hard and both of us because we don’t she each other has much as we like to. She goes to college and so do I and her step dad is going to die he has cancer and her real dad he has this disease 4 got what its called and she lost her job last week and her mom is having a hard time.

 

Also what make this so hard is that my mom is religious and me and her (girl friend) are not the same religion on top of that I am black and she is white ppl look at us soo different its makes me sick to know ppl are like that man but I told her that be for I don’t care wat ppl think and as long as we are happy that good.

 

 

 

So what happened is she called me last Friday and said she does not like how she does not see me a lot and I understand its hard but she also said she does not want to hurt me because she knows how much I love seeing her and she went on saying this is hard cause she has to be there for her family and there is no time for me and her so she broke up with me.

 

So I called her back on Sunday and I will not lie I cried and said I loved her but she said that she had to be there for her self. So time went on and than I called her on Monday and got my act together and said that I loved her but she need to be there for her family and I understand I told her to call me if she ever needed anything big or small. she was very happy to hear that.

 

 

So time went on I called her on Friday 4 days later and said how are u causes she is having a hard time in life right now. Than the craziest thing happened she was like don’t call me anymore cause ever time u call I think about the good times I was like I am calling as a friend that’s all but she said don’t call me anymore it hurts too much. That got me mad but I did not show her that so I need your help people THANK YOU LOT

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Cabras]

You are doing the right things in not showing her that you are mad.

 

I was in a very similar situation years ago. It sounds like she is going through a lot right now. We were forced apart by family, life events, etc..., but in the end she came back to me numerous times. I bet she will call you again soon. In fact when you aren't there for her she may soon realize that having your support can help her be there for her family.

 

-best wishes

[NiCoLe20]

just give her what she wants and that is her space. if you keep calling, its gonna push her farther away and before you know it- she wont be aroundanymore.

 

let her have time to herself- she's really stressing now and needs time for herself. i think it would be nice to send her some flowers just with a ntoe saying that you were just thinking of her and to give you a call when she has time or something like that.. something little like that will mean alot to her...especially now that shes going thru some tough times. thats all i can say for now but leave her alone for a few weeks