MM's offer

[Berkley]

Guess what ? None of us want NC....it is one of the hardest things ever to do - to just completely lose contact with someone you care so much about. It is hell. But when a relationship is doing more harm than good...no matter how much we miss that person, it's for the best in the long run.

 

 

Have you talked to his wife? Have you told her about this offer that you've accepted ? Does she know that the two of you still see each other every day ??

If you want to be her 'friend'...start off by giving her a call and meeting with her. Tell her everything.

See how well that goes over.

[proseandpassion]

Oh, I've tried that old "I'll just stay with this guy until I find something REAL" - nope, doesn't work. Any guys you date while this bozo is in your life will be left heartbroken and disappointed. In fact, don't bother dating because you'll just end up confusing these guys by your hot and cold behavior. Trust me, I've been there.

 

The best way you can find your future husband is to cut off contact with this guy, allow yourself to heal and view relationships in a healthy way again, then approach dating when you have 100% moved on.

[vanellope]

today he told me the most thing attract him on me is business and sex.

because I don't have sex with him and not plan open business with him, he said we truly don't fit.

 

I understand I should not blame anyone because its a path I choose. but it's really hurt words heard from his mouth. I did believe everything is come from love. so now I know it's just about sex and money.

[krazikat]

today he told me the most thing attract him on me is business and sex.

because I don't have sex with him and not plan open business with him, he said we truly don't fit.

 

I understand I should not blame anyone because its a path I choose. but it's really hurt words heard from his mouth. I did believe everything is come from love. so now I know it's just about sex and money.

 

V for your sanity stop dealing with this donkey. Look in the mirror and repeat "l am worth so much more than this!" Until you feel energized by it. (((((V)))))

 

Walk away. When you want to contact h, write in a journal instead. You can do it, love yourself and real love will find you...someone who can be all yours and doesn't have to try to have you play nice with his wife....

[vanellope]

Thank you, krazikat.

 

People from LS did warn me in this post before, I just thought I can did it and be his friend. It's not easy but I think I did well until he told me this.

 

He is quite honest. this words is hurt, a harsh way to make me walk away, heart totally broken.

 

I know I will be fine in the end, I already apply some jobs oversea, I will be in a new place and will forget him completely.

[whichwayisup]

today he told me the most thing attract him on me is business and sex.

because I don't have sex with him and not plan open business with him, he said we truly don't fit.

 

I understand I should not blame anyone because its a path I choose. but it's really hurt words heard from his mouth. I did believe everything is come from love. so now I know it's just about sex and money.

 

As much as it hurts, at least now you know the truth and you can stop investing in him completely and really begin your grieving process.

[krazikat]

Thank you, krazikat.

 

People from LS did warn me in this post before, I just thought I can did it and be his friend. It's not easy but I think I did well until he told me this.

 

He is quite honest. this words is hurt, a harsh way to make me walk away, heart totally broken.

 

I know I will be fine in the end, I already apply some jobs oversea, I will be in a new place and will forget him completely.

 

Girl you will find out how much better off you are without this schlub. Go, enjoy the overseas experience...and don't settle for less than you deserve.