engravefeelthevoid Posted January 15, 2005 Share Posted January 15, 2005 hi everyone, i'm a 16 years old boy, who like everyone else has problems, I mean, lots and lots of girls like me and enjoy being around me, that's what much told me, but the problem is i don't know how to make my move, I don't know how to ask for a date, i don't know how to react i'm like so confused, if anyone has help plz share. and one more thing, i can't talk to a girl i don't know though she gives me the appearance that she likes me. thanx much!!! Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted January 15, 2005 Share Posted January 15, 2005 This would mean that you are shy... What you need to is just start talking to any girl and develop a conversation about anything (For example: Music, school, movies) Alot of boys your age doesn't know who to ask a girl out so, don't feel bad. Start with just an easy conversation that will break the ice. Then you ask " If you aren't doing anything this weekend, would you like to hangout and catch a movie or something" That can work or If there is a school dance coming up. This could be easier. Do you have any friends that happen to be girls and are they single??? You are just scared that she may say no that's why you don't want to ask or talk to her. If you never ask you will never know. You may regert it in years to come. Link to post Share on other sites
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted January 17, 2005 Author Share Posted January 17, 2005 well, i'm kinda shy but the main problem is i'm afraid they'd say NO, it happened to me once or twice that is so i know how it feels, it's become more of an "aphobia" he he but good suggestions thanx any more? Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 The only other thing I can tell you is not to give up, because oncew you do you will be 20 with out no girlfriend and people will think that you are gay... So I would go for it... Link to post Share on other sites
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted January 18, 2005 Author Share Posted January 18, 2005 douzen thanks dear buddy!! Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 No Problem... Just hope that you do take my advice.... I should be hearing you on here soon posting about your date.... Link to post Share on other sites
pom Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 thats just funny cos im 19, havent had a girlfriend and people think im gay! dont grow up to be like me! Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 People suck that's all... Link to post Share on other sites
Chrono721 Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 Ok. You are shy. So am I. Never experience the "NO" thing before though cause everyone at my school is really nice. Just think that the WORSt possible thing that could happen is that she could say no. I know this is confusing with all the nos so try to cope. ^_^ -Chrono721 Link to post Share on other sites
FireDragonBL Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 well, at least the girls are attracted to you ^_^ that's a start... Just talk to them as if they were friends...talk about common things...or points of interests... school...movies...sports (well...maybe not sports)...and certain activities you and your friends have engaged in...pranks and jokes for instance, as well as any act of defiance against authority... note...don't be afraid to be funny...girls like humor... they like a rebel too lol hopefully, you have friends who ARE girls...ask them for advice on the ones you wish to ask out...that usually tends to help...and try to ask the ones you deem trustworthy, or else rumors will start flying and ur social life will be screwed over for the next few weeks... actually, sometimes that's a good thing...if the rumors are reasonable...they'll tell the girl that you like her without you embarassing yourself... that way you won't need to express your feeling towards that "special" girl directly and in person...that's pretty much it...you just have to get used to talking to girls... note...just because they're girls doesn't mean you treat them differently from your friends who are boys...many girls hate that...they're people too...you'll learn that eventually...especially if you live next to one for four years... as for how you actually ask them out ^_^ well you're going to have to learn first hand... note...when you go to movies make sure you're watching something that interests her...even though it bore you...act interested in the movie too... I've noticed that a lot of girls actually enjoy classical music as well...you take her to a symphony concert...DON'T FALL ASLEEP...or yawn... hmmm...lessee...oh yeah...the restaurant...wow...make sure you show some manners...and try to take her to someplace preferably casual...not too formal...or else you will have hell to pay...both literally and metaphorically speaking... yeah...I suggest a double date...which will help edge out the tension you feel...drag a friend and his girlfriend along...it'll be fun ^_^ -BL gl ^_^ Link to post Share on other sites
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted January 24, 2005 Author Share Posted January 24, 2005 I can't beleive you people are helping me this way!! you know you've just given me a superior boost,i don't know how to thank you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
joel Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 lol i'm even worst lol hahah 24 and no gf and some ppl have asked if i was gay or thought i was gay uhhhh Link to post Share on other sites
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