I am breaking it off tomorrow

[proseandpassion]

Good job girl...stay strong!

 

Ironically, that song tells the story of exactly what I told him to do. "Stay with your wife, and leave me alone, and I need to quit denying myself the chance for happiness"- yep. Kinda icky that he feels the need to remind me of that.

[krazikat]

Ironically, that song tells the story of exactly what I told him to do. "Stay with your wife, and leave me alone, and I need to quit denying myself the chance for happiness"- yep. Kinda icky that he feels the need to remind me of that.

 

Yeah, it is. He needs to leave you alone. These dudes are something else.

[OldRover]

Ironically, that song tells the story of exactly what I told him to do. "Stay with your wife, and leave me alone, and I need to quit denying myself the chance for happiness"- yep. Kinda icky that he feels the need to remind me of that.

 

First, wish you the best in successfully starting over.

 

However, I really don't feel it's fair the way a lot of folks here called this guy names, liar, cheat, etc., etc. It took two to make this A and you're just a guilty as he is. I'm sure it never would have happened if both of you didn't find some mutual attraction, and liked being together.

 

And he probably is hurting, just like you are.We don't know why or if he will ever leave his wife and I can understand why that would be an issue for you. Deserve better? Sure you do, that's your choice. Best to you and good luck.

[proseandpassion]

First, wish you the best in successfully starting over.

 

However, I really don't feel it's fair the way a lot of folks here called this guy names, liar, cheat, etc., etc. It took two to make this A and you're just a guilty as he is. I'm sure it never would have happened if both of you didn't find some mutual attraction, and liked being together.

 

And he probably is hurting, just like you are.We don't know why or if he will ever leave his wife and I can understand why that would be an issue for you. Deserve better? Sure you do, that's your choice. Best to you and good luck.

 

I said it was icky that he reminded me of that song. I didn't call HIM icky, I called his actions icky. Plus, this isn't your average nice guy accidentally had an affair and regrets it guy. This is an entitled, serial cheater... a cake eater. He'll find my replacement soon enough. Thanks for the message, though!

[Realist3]

I've had enough. I can't take it anymore. My MM has been on vacation with his wife for a week now, and during this time apart I've felt great - this has been sucking my life force.

 

I don't want to do it in person. I think a text would suffice. I'd like to text him while he's on his flight home so that I can have a few hours to breathe after. Anyone have any suggestions for a succint way to end this in a few sentences?

 

Don't do it by text. That is a punk move IMO.

[proseandpassion]

Don't do it by text. That is a punk move IMO.

 

Already happened!

[KaliLove]

Don't do it by text. That is a punk move IMO.

 

After what he's been doing, I think it was the perfect move for her.

[Lady2163]

If this was one of those manipulative, using type of people (and I think he was), then I don't think he deserved anything more than a text.

 

That said, rejection sucks. Nevermind the oodles of times MM rejects the OW, as soon as soon as he is rejected, he starts all the manipulative behavior.

 

I've used the line, "Tell me what evil, horrible unforgivable thing I did in my life that all I deserve is an affair? Am I really that awful I don't deserve a full-time man?". When I've needed to reject married men in positions of authority.

 

Add me to the list of people telling you to change your number. I never felt better than when I was able to change addresses a couple of times, phone numbers, cars, and emails to shelter myself from an former abusive boyfriend. It took years to do all that.