angelstar Posted January 16, 2005 Share Posted January 16, 2005 I recently brokeup with my ex. Too long a story to go into. My main reason for this posting is regarding a long time old friend and lover. I just wanted to get some opinions as to what I should do. I have considered the fact that I may be on rebound but I've recently discovered that this isnt the case with me. So we're ok with that one. The story goes: Meet this guy back in 2001. Had a summer fling with him then it ended. He lost the plot when we finished. Put his foot through his front door out of anger and frustration. Never really new the reason. Ongoing stuff thats happened with us.. Was sharing accomm with his mate and one night he came storming thru into my bedroom. To check up on my to see if I was with someone. He was drunk and out of his mouth came "I love you" then he bailed and that was that. Weve been friends for 4yrs now. Kept intouch on and off and have seen eachother on occasions. but with both us travelling, living in other countries now and other relationships theres never been an opportunity to meet up. We had a couple of flings during the course of these 4 yrs whilst both of us where in relationships. And to be honest I've been constantly thinking about him ever since our love relationship ended. He rang me 3 mths ago. We spoke for 3 hrs. He went onto remind me that one of his female friends asked him why we werent together and were so meant to be. I also recall one of this best mates telling me that he loved me. Only last year he mentioned he'd like to fly to see me. I said no. I"ve also deleted his phone number from my mobile because at the time it just wasnt acceptable to keep him in my heart due to being in other relationships and out of respect for the other person. So I used NC. I cant stop thinking about him and my desire to see him is getting stronger. This has been going on for ages! I have been thinking about him all this time till quite recently just before my ex and brokeup. I think i love him this man. I don't have his phone number so i cant call him directly and have recently found an address to where I can contact him. What is your advice... What would you do if you were me. Do you think this guy might have similar feelings for me? Confused? Link to post Share on other sites
AndrewJ Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 Hello Angelstar, sounds like you still have someplace in your herat for this guy. Ask your freind for his number or email address. he may be the cure to your star gazing loneliness. Always good to have someone to talk to anyway Link to post Share on other sites
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