SugarAzn Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 (edited) So my SO meet about a year ago and I had posted a question regarding what I should do when I took the leap and flew to him. Im originally from Los Angeles and he's in Orlando. I can honestly say that it was one of the best decisions I've made. I don't think Ive met anyone so dedicated, loving, understanding, and intellectually stimulating funny and he some how seems to make me fall in love with him over and over again. Yes, this is true sometimes when he is a stubborn butt head but he sometimes does come around. We have been seriously discussing moving in together since around November and I honest to God want to live with him. Each time we fly to eachother ( we take turns ) it feels so normal. Like, I sometimes hear some LDR couples say its like a vacation when they visit eachother and honestly, if ya'll saw us one day I don't think youd even know we were in a LDR. I mean, I'll be hyped about going to the grocery store in sweats and my SO is gung-ho about it. It's super cute and I've NEVER had a guy be excited to go grocery shopping, let alone love planning meals with me. He's moving in the summer to Cali and I'll already have an apartment set up because i'll be going back to school. (I was in a car accident and injured basically my whole upper body so school was a no-no) . . . My concerns are:bunny: 1) How to get around my traditional Korean parents? [ Koreans are super conservative and my parents are still coping w the fact that Im not living w them anymore and I'm going to leave home again once I'm done getting better. I know thyere going to want to visit me at some point to make sure Im safe and what not, meaning, they WILL spend a night or two If they visit ] 2) Is a smart move to immediately move in together? [ my gut says yes but I've so many mixed responses and it's always leading to the question of marriage. Hes 25 and Im 20, we've talked bout it but its not happening anytime soon ] . . . Please Help? . _. Edited February 6, 2014 by SugarAzn Link to post Share on other sites
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