dont no what to do

[fab]

hey sup my girl and i broke up 1 week a ago we were very good to each other i love her and she loved me 100%.Today i want to work and my friend tells me she was with a guy at a mall and than i ask her and she said hey she was than i called her best friend and she said it was her friend from college but my ex does not have guy friends at school i am 100%.so i dont no wat to do

[Merin]

Sorry you and your girlfriend broke up..

 

However If the 2 of you are broke up.. then yeah.. it's only her decision who she see's and doesn't..

 

Sorry.

[fab]

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Will she come back What to do

 

Hey sup to all. I need a lot of help me and my girlfriend has been dating for 2 years. we loved each other so much. We were good to each other all the time. Lately things have been hard and both of us because we don’t she each other has much as we like to. She goes to college and so do I and her step dad is going to die he has cancer and her real dad he has this disease 4 got what its called and she lost her job last week and her mom is having a hard time.

 

Also what make this so hard is that my mom is religious and me and her (girl friend) are not the same religion on top of that I am black and she is white ppl look at us soo different its makes me sick to know ppl are like that man but I told her that be for I don’t care wat ppl think and as long as we are happy that good.

 

 

 

So what happened is she called me last Friday and said she does not like how she does not see me a lot and I understand its hard but she also said she does not want to hurt me because she knows how much I love seeing her and she went on saying this is hard cause she has to be there for her family and there is no time for me and her so she broke up with me.

 

So I called her back on Sunday and I will not lie I cried and said I loved her but she said that she had to be there for her self. So time went on and than I called her on Monday and got my act together and said that I loved her but she need to be there for her family and I understand I told her to call me if she ever needed anything big or small. she was very happy to hear that.

 

 

So time went on I called her on Friday 4 days later and said how are u causes she is having a hard time in life right now. Than the craziest thing happened she was like don’t call me anymore cause ever time u call I think about the good times I was like I am calling as a friend that’s all but she said don’t call me anymore it hurts too much. That got me mad but I did not show her that so I need your help people

 

 

Sunday I want to work it has been 1 week we were very good to each other i love her and she loved me 100%.Today i want to work and my friend tells me she was with a guy at a mall and than i ask her and she said hey she was than i called her best friend and she said it was her friend from college but my ex does not have guy friends at school i am 100%.so i dont no wat to do.where did all your love go a new guy 1 week that is not like her man **** she is a good girl

 

I don’t know what to do she has not called me to say hey it’s a friend from college like her friend said

Help

[strange love]

FAB

 

Im guessing you are young.. ie 20 or younger.

 

This predicament quite sucks I guess

 

I had lots of women leave me for sure.. but never for another guy it more had to do with other things.

 

In any case

 

MAYBE there something else you havent added in here.

 

Other then that. If she tells you to not call then dont.. Thats what I always did when I was young and dumb. Heres another tip dont pester her about the OTHER GUY

why do people always care about the other guy or other woman or the ice cream vendor..?

 

Just take a break let her call in the mean time read a few books like MARS and VENUS so u can understand women better..

 

So that means hanging out alone for a bit yep it sucks I know but someone said a good book is like a good friend

 

have a party

[nan]

It's like this, you two are broken up so you can't really get too mad. My boyfriend did this to me too. One of 2 things can happen. Either she will move on and realize that she doesn't need you, or she will realize how much she loves you and come back to you. We all hope for the later (my boyfriend broke up with me, dated a girl for a couple weeks and realized that the grass was greener on my side of the fence). So I hope that this is going to be your case too.

 

Hope this helps, don't give up hope. I was SOOOOO mad at him because it's kind of a big ego blow to fing out you can be "replaced" so easily, but in reality you can't. But I stuck it out, confessed to him how much I loved him, but it also takes 2. So she's going to have to know that she loves you too. He knew that he loved me and was in love with me, but he had on his temporary blinders. So I'm not sure what to do, because some people will say no contact, and some will say contact. Personally, in my situation, no contact is what screwed things up in the first place. Once I was honest with myself and my feelings, I could tell him. But I now him like the back of my hand. You know what will work best in your situation.

 

Hang in there!

 

Nan