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I always have this feeling that if I don't talk to my girlfriend through whatsapp she'll stop loving me, or when she doesn't text me that she's lost her love for me.

 

but then when I see her in real life again, I know she loves me. but the cycle continues on the days where I don't get to see her. which is alot, I only see her twice a week, because she's ''busy'' all the time...

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Have you been professionally diagnosed as having this mental construct?

 

if 'Yes', see your Doctor/Therapist with this issue.

 

If 'No' - See your Doctor and ask for referral to a Therapist, for this issue.

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After having read a part of your other thread but not all of it, it's no wonder you're a bit insecure in this relationship.

What's your age?

Why do you NEED to have a committed relationship at this time? Can't it wait?

Your gf has said some things that would make any person be insecure.

 

 

I might consider working on dating without needing a commitment from the girls. If you're as young as I think you are--still in high school?--then have some fun instead of needing a commitment.

My apologies if I have the age wrong.

Still going off in the army in 3 years? If so the best chances for any relationship to succeed would be one in which you and the girl were on the same base.

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