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But what does that have to do with her decision to cheat?

 

Or is that not the point?

 

As a woman, she has needs and desires - they cannot be fulfilled by motherhood alone.

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As a woman, she has needs and desires - they cannot be fulfilled by motherhood alone.

 

But so do I- and I don't cheat. We all have a life outside of our uterus, but that's not a license to harm others. Needs and desires sated by the pain of others is too high a price.

 

Perhaps volunteer work would be a better match.

 

#preachingtochoir

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OP-

 

Not overly familiar with your situation but exactly what, specifically, prevents you from leaving?

 

Your children will be fine. I got D with a 5 and 2 year old. And I had just gotten laid off during the D proceedings. Both are now straight A well adjusted kids.

 

If I can leave with two kids under 5, and no job to boot (at least at the end of the D)...I wager you can too.

 

Because, honestly, I see only excuses from you. You can't leave "because of the kids". Or "money". Hogwash I say.

 

Have you consulted an attorney? Have you visited with child psychologists? Rally-ed friends and family around you - for support during this?

 

Aside from your A...what actions have you taken to get yourself into a happy life.

(and, one can argue the A isn't making you happy but rather distracting you from what makes you unhappy).

 

What can you DO to get happy?

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