anne1707 Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 But what does that have to do with her decision to cheat? Or is that not the point? As a woman, she has needs and desires - they cannot be fulfilled by motherhood alone.
HermioneG Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 As a woman, she has needs and desires - they cannot be fulfilled by motherhood alone. But so do I- and I don't cheat. We all have a life outside of our uterus, but that's not a license to harm others. Needs and desires sated by the pain of others is too high a price. Perhaps volunteer work would be a better match. #preachingtochoir 2
jwi71 Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 OP- Not overly familiar with your situation but exactly what, specifically, prevents you from leaving? Your children will be fine. I got D with a 5 and 2 year old. And I had just gotten laid off during the D proceedings. Both are now straight A well adjusted kids. If I can leave with two kids under 5, and no job to boot (at least at the end of the D)...I wager you can too. Because, honestly, I see only excuses from you. You can't leave "because of the kids". Or "money". Hogwash I say. Have you consulted an attorney? Have you visited with child psychologists? Rally-ed friends and family around you - for support during this? Aside from your A...what actions have you taken to get yourself into a happy life. (and, one can argue the A isn't making you happy but rather distracting you from what makes you unhappy). What can you DO to get happy? 2
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