Leigh 87 Posted February 10, 2014 Share Posted February 10, 2014 I have a good friend and I am curious about what people think about her situation. She is rarely crazy about guys. The one guy she was crazy about was about 5 years ago; he was with her from age 21 - 25. She was a few years younger than him. He cheated on her so she left. It is now 5 years later. He works in Russia. They are from Belarus. She went to stay with him, as a "friend", and he has revealed that he is still in love with her, and it was the biggest mistake of his life to not marry her back then. He has had many options since her yet he has never had anyone who makes him happy in the way she does. When he fell asleep she snooped through his facebook (to see if he was still a lying cheating douchebag) and to her delight, he had started a lot of flings with women and short lived relationships... And whenever they asked him whether or not he wanted a relationship with them he would say " no sorry, I can't, my love is very far away " ( she lives in Australia). SO he has shut down all the recent girls and told a lot of people that his true love is very far away. He has said he wants to move to Australia, do anything to be with her, and he wants to have children with her and marry her. Is he a lying sociopath that couldn't do any better than her and has decided to settle and totally lie to her about his undying love? Will he go back to his old cheating ways if she gives him another chance? Or, are some guys in their early 20s just retarded and naturally very selfish, TOO much so to handle having a true love? Is it possible she is his true love but he was simply too young to handle it at the time? It has been 5 years and he swears that he has never found a girl like her in the time apart. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted February 10, 2014 Share Posted February 10, 2014 You discounted one possibility, that he could be trying to get out of Belarus. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leigh 87 Posted February 10, 2014 Author Share Posted February 10, 2014 You discounted one possibility, that he could be trying to get out of Belarus. That did cross my mind. He works in Russia. I will tell her to consider this. He didn't mention Aus much and I am not sure if he even has a high hope of living here? Link to post Share on other sites
StGeorge22 Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 100% When I was in my early 20s I was quite immature and didn't know how to express myself. Now in my late 20s I'm much more mature. I really do think people can change after going thru life experiences Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts