johnww92 Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Ok so girlfriend broke up with me after 2 months because we went too fast and she only got out of a long relationship not long before we got together and needed to be alone. Other then that everything was perfect we never fought and we got along so well and were absolutely mad about each-other. Around a week or 2 after we broke up I asked her would she try starting things fresh and go slow this time and see how it goes but if she lost interest in me I would respect that and move on. She agreed to try again and said she hasn't lost interest and doesn't want me to even think that agreed to come over for movies. She came over anyways and everything was fine we had fun and kissed but halfway through the night she started acting weird and quiet but said its because shes tried. After that night I messaged her the next evening and she said she doesn't feel the same about me anymore and I got mad and told her she should have said that when I asked her but she said she only realized it the night she was in my house. Later that night she txt me kind of drunk saying sorry and how she feels up and down lately like some days she wants to be with me others she doesn't want anyone near her. I then rang her and we had a chat and she said she feels like she cant talk to me about stuff because she thinks I take everything as a joke which is not true I dunno how she got that idea..So we then decided to talk the next day sober but the next day she said she was too busy so the day after I told her I told her I'll ring her but she said she couldn't talk just do it over facebook then I asked her why she thinks she cant talk to me and she just said forget about it she shouldn't have said it and changed the subject..She said in time she will talk to me and let me when shes ready but move on and not rush her. So any idea whats going on? I really don't know how she could lose interest in the space of few hours? I'm moving on but at the same time I don't want to lose her she means so much to me and its Valentines day Friday. Link to post Share on other sites
Pablo Augustus Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 It is hard for an outsider to get the right idea of what is going on here. But I'd say that the girl in question is still in love with her ex, perhaps you are not helping your situation by being too reliant on her (some call it clingy). Tell her that you are sorry for pushing her to get involved too early and tell her you'll give her some space. She'll go away and think for awhile and you may just become her new knight in shining armour! Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted February 11, 2014 Share Posted February 11, 2014 Yeah. Apologize and say sorry for rushing it then go No Contact. Let her be the one to initiate contact. Don't contact her, especially on Friday. Don't even wish her Happy V-Day. She'll see it as clingy. Give her the space she needs and let her figure her **** out. Link to post Share on other sites
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