joel Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 i was ending my class walking down the halls when a classmate-a gal from my class came up to me and said ah did u go to templton high i said NO then she said did u go to van tech high and i said no, then i told her i went to kits, then she said ah b/c u look just like one of my brothers freinds, then i said ahh don't think so, then she said u sure about that ,u didn't go to van tech high. i didn't say anything after that. another time i saw this girl smiling right at me. eye contact wise ok is this flirting or just being nice Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 Yes it sounds like yes she could like you Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 Maybe she was looking for a reason to talk to you so she approached you saying that, I mean it sounds like she was attempting to make conversation, if you would like to get to know her, go talk to her, strike up a conversation and maybe ask her out to lunch or something! Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted January 18, 2005 Author Share Posted January 18, 2005 another time as i we were finishing the class the same female classmate was waiting for me outside the class, as i came out she said talking to me about my classes, what i took, how i did in our other class....and then i told her i took math 13895 and she said wow hard course she said good luck and then i said thank u and then she said ah i now u'll do well. no smile. she asked quite a lot of questions. like why i am taking math- it is an elective. i was walking straight with her down the hallway and then turned left -lol she follows, then i walked straight and we talked she asking questions and then i turned right to the library and she followed right, but not into the library. so she pretty much from what i see it was following me. 2 days ago she did the same thing ended class she waited for me outside of class-to talk or something. i mean i don't even now her. Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 BUT do you like her? Would you like to get to know her? From this last post it sounds like you're almost annoyed by her...?! If you like her or are interested in getting to know her you better start showing some interest or you may lose your chance! Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted January 18, 2005 Author Share Posted January 18, 2005 i was thinkin of saying this -i see her waiting for the bus every tuesdays right and one time i would say this-hey doesn't ur lucky bf come pick u up-smile and also laugh a little too. good one hey. i could also say ah i see u don;t wear any make up hey , maybe b/c u don;t need any,hahah (laugh a little) ah u b/c you are a natural beauty. how about my flirting ways is it good. u now i am the mercedes of all men- why u must say b/c i give my most attentive nature to the women. this one be a light joke ,flirting wise to see if she is really into me ,but not serious at all - i would say ah how about a date lol laugh a little and say ah our date be light walk on the beach, dinner and cuddling so how does it sound-with me little bit laughing and giving eye brow raises as i say it. how about any more suggestoins as what to say to flirt back with the gal. Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted January 18, 2005 Share Posted January 18, 2005 hey doesn't ur lucky bf come pick u up-smile and also laugh a little too This one is good but I'm not so sure about the other ones...a tad corny honestly! If you say this and she says she doesn't have a BF say "well maybe I can change that" or then ask her out on a date! Or say Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted January 19, 2005 Author Share Posted January 19, 2005 how about if she does have a bf- i c an say ah what a lucky guy, or i thought so no way a beautiful women as urself can be single- all smiling and giggling as i say this. how about it guys Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 she asked me out right after class- for a drink. i was surprised. i said sorry No mabe next time as i had a lot of HW. she said nothing but had a very disappointed look on her face. ok this is what i am sayin 5 days ago she was askin me all these questions and all and 2 days ago asked me for drinks, but a yr ago she was in like 4 courses with me and also last semester she was also in one of my classes and diodn't even say a word to me, but now she does. ok what is with that. i been a wk and half now and she saw me on the hallways, comp labs, and she doesn't even come and talk to me or say anything to me. she does looks at me at times and sometimes doesn't but she doesn't speak to me. aslod shouldn't she ask for my email or phone number before asking me out Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 22, 2005 Share Posted January 22, 2005 let me tell u something JOEL. anytime a female goes up to a strange guy and starts a conversation there is a very good likelihood that she is attracted to him. women generally don't go up and start conversations with male strangers unless they are after something. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted January 22, 2005 Author Share Posted January 22, 2005 a couple of dayts after she asked me out she told me that drinks idea was just gettin a coffee and nothin of alocohol related.we talked about courses ,she did most of the askin but she didn't ask me anymore.what a tease.. after that day she didn't say a word to me anymore or anything ,even when she saw me around campus. she was in one of my courses and i see her talking to other guys in other from other courses as well, and lookin at other guys. she jokes around a lot and laughs with her group ppl doing their project -i been observing, i don;t think she;s my type. i also noticed she;s very flirtous hmm lkinda of like a playa. not sure if shes for real or just a flake. talking to her she seems kinda of lazy, always askin if the course i am taking has a lot of HW or not, she alwasy late for class to or just in time. not my type Link to post Share on other sites
blue17 Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 It almost seems like you're attempting to find negative things about her to justify the situation. She might not be your ideal type per se, but you can still have a great time with people who are different. Also, just because she is lazy about school, doesn't mean that she is a totally opposite person. School is just one area of life, and just because she has a different philosphy about that doesn't mean you shouldn't exclude her. If you truly don't respect her, then why are u observing her behaviour so intently? It's only girls I have feelings for I might keep an eye on what they're doing if they happen to be in the same area as me. If it's someone you're not interested in or care about...then there is no need to watch them like a hawk. She is NOT a tease (so far given the information). She asked you out on a date essentially, and she was rejected in her eyes. She was hurt by that, as you could see by her disappointed look. Now she's trying to move on and forget about you because it's obvious to her you weren't interested. As for her not saying hi to you in the other classes you had before...big deal. There was this chick i had some classes with, but for almost 5 years of high school never said anything to each other (there wasn't really any reason to). Then one day a conversation just happened between us and we hit it off from there. Just because two people don't say hi to each other initially doesn't mean something can't develop in the future. I'd just forget about her, because she has obviously moved on and her ego is bruised from this rejection. Link to post Share on other sites
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