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So every time I will talk to this girl she starts liking my pictures on Instagram. It's weird though because her eyes light up and she smiles when she sees me. So I figure I'll ask her out but she always acts weird when I do and never gives an answer. I'm not going to chase people though. We are in college and I was working out then I saw her with her friend but I continued with my workout. I wanted to see if she would make the effort. Eventually she came over and said looking good Jon. Her and friend stayed and talked. Later that night she liked my Instagram pictures. What is her deal?

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If you like her back, ask her out.

 

 

I don't what you mean by you're "not going to chase people". If you don't ask to spend time with her she will eventually conclude that you are not interested & move on.

 

 

It's only in certain kinds of movies where the girl walks up to & offers sexual favors a few minutes after meeting you.

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If you like her back, ask her out.

 

 

I don't what you mean by you're "not going to chase people". If you don't ask to spend time with her she will eventually conclude that you are not interested & move on.

 

 

It's only in certain kinds of movies where the girl walks up to & offers sexual favors a few minutes after meeting you.

 

what I am saying is I have asked her out but she never really answers. By chase I mean I'm not going to sit there and beg her.

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I missed that line about you not getting a straight answer. I think I'd stop asking for a while. She may not know her own mind or she may simply be too immature.

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Maybe you should flat out ask her why she's so flaky with a response. Then, you'd know whether or not you want to keep at anything, maybe she's got something personal going on. I would just be direct and ask why she's being so dodgy and go from there.

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You actually have the answer in your post, it's college. Clearly, not the facility itself but the maturity level involved. She is young, likes to play games, not sure what she wants, still trying to figure herself out, and round and round it goes. I can only suggest to move along, save yourself future grief.

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