irc333 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 I had a debate going on with a female friend. Keep in mind though, she's one of those independent types that claim to be overly busy, but if she find the time she will "squeeze" you in for a meet. First of all, she's probably mid-40's, a runs a karaoke business, and has no kids. She does claim she works 3 jobs, goes to the gym, and has a social life with her friends. She says, "If she's too busy for a guy, it means HE needs to find something to keep him JUST as busy". Apparently she values her time with her friends and won't give up pre-planned events with friends just so she go on a date. Perhaps this is a woman thing, but I haven't really known men to do this. f a man has a hot date, he'll skip his poker night for a change. SHe doesn't subscribe to the simple fact, "If you can't make time for someone, it means you're not interested". It's as simple as that, but she thinks he should just 'Find more things to do with his time". I made mention "Can she not give up a night in her life to go on a date??" She said no, and this is why guys who aren't as busy as some other women, when they get girlfriends, they rely on Signicant Others to be their social support and he has no friends of his own. Though, I've known that to be the norm. Link to post Share on other sites
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