woahmike Posted February 15, 2014 Share Posted February 15, 2014 Ok so I'm going to keep this somewhat short but feel free to ask for details if you need them to formulate the best response. Basically I was seeing a girl for a little over a month and things were going pretty well. She really liked me a lot and some of her texts/comments often freaked me out with messages like I can't stop thinking about you, I only want to be with you, etc. We ended up having sex halfway through and did it a couple of times. She ended up getting freaked out by how fast the relationship was moving and ended it. I was really upset about this but I got over it after quite some time (I wanted what I couldnt have the whole time). Three months went by and now we recently started seeing each other again. She is essentially treating it like starting over. There is one thing that I can't stop thinking about however. We both did things with other people (me: 2 girls, her: 1 guy) during our "break" but the guy that she hooked up with, who she only hung out with once, she ended up giving him a BJ that same night. This bothers me because she doesnt like giving head at all and has never done it for me, yet does it for this kid the first time they hang out. The reason why this bothers me is that it makes me feel like I'm not worth that kind of effort to her, while this guy clearly was. This is what I make of this situation. Thus, it is not about the head really, its about her potentially not being all too interested in me. So I'm just looking to see if you guys agree with me, that this gesture for the other kid implies that she was more interested in him than me. I don't want to be with a girl that is not fully attracted to me. Link to post Share on other sites
BradJacobs Posted February 15, 2014 Share Posted February 15, 2014 He hit the right buttons on the first night. Some of this comes down to timing. Some of it comes to how both people felt. Why does his success bother you? You two aren't an item any longer. Did you think that she was not that type of girl? Link to post Share on other sites
Author woahmike Posted February 15, 2014 Author Share Posted February 15, 2014 Well she's given head a decent amount of times before but she told me that she hates it. I never got it before we split up, and I still haven't gotten it now that we're back together, but this kid sees her one night while we were split up, and she does something she hates doing for him. Its not about his success or the act that occurred that night, its about her doing something for someone that she doesnt do for me, making me feel like I am not worth the effort, that she doesnt feel like i'm worth her doing something she'd rather not. I only would like to see if I am right about this, because I want to be with a girl that holds me to a higher regard. I know that girls are willing to do more things for guys they consider better catches. Link to post Share on other sites
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