wholeneworld Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Hi, My gf of 6 months said to me out of the blue one day "i dont think this is going anywhere" i didnt argue and said theres no more to say and walked away and said goodbye, Did i do the right thing? cant get her off my mind and think i should have fought harder to save it or did i save more agony by doing what i did and getting to the inevitable anyway? Link to post Share on other sites
lvroflife Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Yes you did! Absolutely you did! You accepted her request. Now just go on with life. If you are thinking she will come back, maybe she will maybe she won't. STOP that thinking right now! You have to get back to you. This same thing happen to me, she said to me "I don't see a future with us, or anybody." I said "ok" and because I treated her proper she came back (only to break up two years later). Now I am not saying yours will, I am saying that if you treated her the best of your ablity, have confidence in that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wholeneworld Posted February 18, 2014 Author Share Posted February 18, 2014 Ya im gone into NC now and i havent contacted her in 3 weeks or havent heard from her either, I feel i really miss her this week in particular, i was so tempted to text her Happy Valentines and i didnt glad i didnt tho, As you say i left it with her, she said i deserved better than someone who wasnt sure, i text and told her how i felt about her and left it at that so as you say as hard as it is im getting on with my own life, she knows how i feel if she trys to come back. Link to post Share on other sites
lvroflife Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Good as you should! There are a lot of people out there who want what you have to offer. If she does come back do not make it easy for her... By then you'll know what to do because you'll be thinking logically and not emotionally!! GOOD LUCK!! Link to post Share on other sites
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