lolablue17 Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 You think she'll try to reconnect? No, She wont! She is everything but acting naturally. She (and also you) is acting like a politician or a chess player - seems that her most powerful motive and goal is to be in a better status refering to you or other people. she wants to have the upper hand all the time. she is way too much protecting her self from getting hurt. she is so rational, and the appearence of things is very important to her, and her female honor also a great part of her motives. My advice - call her (no mail, no text) and offer her to meeting you next time you are there. tell her that you and her both were playing silly games, and you just miss her, her smile, her touch... She might refuse (upper hand, remember?). If she does, its a sign for you that she is not worth your attention. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 "I miss hanging out with you, your smile, our mutual interests.. just hanging out on your couch doing nothing. I think we can make things work, but I'm not going to chase. If you want to meet for coffee next time I'm down, cool, if not, I understand" Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 "I miss hanging out with you, your smile, our mutual interests.. just hanging out on your couch doing nothing. I think we can make things work, but I'm not going to chase. If you want to meet for coffee next time I'm down, cool, if not, I understand" Said who? Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 I sent that, sorry I wasn't clearer. Link to post Share on other sites
nomadic_butterfly Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 I sent that, sorry I wasn't clearer. LOL whyyyy??! This is regression!! Come on! "I am not going to chase" yet that is EXACTLY what you are doing. Have you no shame? Lol she must have really blown your mind in te sack; you are trippin off the nani. Well I guess if you are adamant about having marginal self respect and being a fall back boy, there's nothing we can do about it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 She is everything but acting naturally. She (and also you) is acting like a politician or a chess player That's quite spot on. Said who? I sent that, sorry I wasn't clearer. No, actually it was very clear. She could not have written that in a million years! LOL whyyyy??! This is regression!! Have you no shame? Come on, don't be so hard on him... It's just that we all know she doesn't deserve all this attention, interest and affection.......... But I guess he was mislead by this: My advice - call her (no mail, no text) Well, Lola said not to text, but he did things his way. Now, Calvin, you shouldn't call her nor contact her anymore. You know that, don't you? She might be back with some kind of text, let it go. If you want to answer, and must really do so, let at least 10 days go by. You don't focus on her anymore, and she will know, you're not her puppy. Maybe she will find a guy who will give her a lesson, or two. And the irony of it is she might fall for him. Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Lol she must have really blown your mind in te sack; you are trippin off the nani. Pretty much yeah, I think you hit the nail on the head nomadic_butterfly. Especially when you take this into perspective. He has two heads. Maybe he thinks she can fix both of them. But clearly, he's only using the one that's south of the border. Best, TMichaels 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 She replied back: "Sorry to say I don't feel the same. Best of luck in your search." Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 She replied back: "Sorry to say I don't feel the same. Best of luck in your search." Well, you got it loud and clear. now you can move on and forget her. Dont answer to any of her texts, mails. complete silence. Link to post Share on other sites
nomadic_butterfly Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 Well, you got it loud and clear. now you can move on and forget her. Dont answer to any of her texts, mails. complete silence. Unfortunately if she changes her mind, she knows he will still be around Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 Unfortunately if she changes her mind, she knows he will still be around That girl ("girl" is not the right definition to this cold dry business plan with tits and ass) thinks only of her self. He better cut her completely 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted February 25, 2014 Author Share Posted February 25, 2014 I doubt it, given that I've already started seeing someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
nomadic_butterfly Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 I doubt it, given that I've already started seeing someone else. Hmm...if she told u she changed her mind, you know good and well the new girl would get the boot! You don't start forum topics like this for someone you are indifferent to, especially showing some glimmer of hope with sending "I think we can work" etc. after she clearly showed and told she had no interest whatsoever a multitude of times. Hopefully the newbie helps you to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CalvinM Posted February 26, 2014 Author Share Posted February 26, 2014 Except for the fact that I realize she's a myopic b***h and deserve better. Thanks for everyone's insight. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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