BassWalker Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 My ex broke up with me about two months ago. It's a long story but she felt that I was wanting some breathing room. In reality I was going through a bout of depression. I've recovered and I've been thinking about getting back together with her. After she broke up with me, I deleted her number from my cell phone so I have no way to know how she feels. The only option I have is going to office where she works or hoping we bump into each other sometime. I really have my doubts if she would even take me back because she ended the relationship. A few days ago, I seen her driving with some people while I waited for the light to change. I wasn't sure if she seen me. Then today a friend of a friend that was with her said that when she saw me she took a deep gasp for breath and that she was was acting weird after that. Is there any significance in that? Anyone done that before? Link to post Share on other sites
legion113 Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 Why don't you just ASK her? She's the only one that really knows why she did that after all, no one on these boards does. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 I don't agree with asking her -- stay in No Contact. But her acting "weird" doesn't necessarily mean anything positive. My ex acted "weird" around me when I saw her six weeks after the break -- it was hardly an avenue to reconciliation. It could mean a variety of things. If it meant something good for you, she'll let you know by doing something a lot more obvious down the road. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
denxnis Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 Instead of thinking about what you want try to think about her needs for a change. The problem with break-ups is that the person who got dumped is always shouting "me me me" and will do anything and everything to get their own way; which usually ends up backfiring! If she asked for space then give her all the space in the world; put your own feelings and emotions aside for once. If you really cared about her you would do this. The best thing you could do right now is improve your own well being, physically and mentally. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author BassWalker Posted February 20, 2014 Author Share Posted February 20, 2014 Yea I'm just going to relax and let it be. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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